Boldness Is A Gift

Having watched a debate recently this topic began to speak more light to me, boldness truly is a gift and everyone should realize and work towards the acquisition of this gift. So clearly from the debate I knew that this particular lady had a lot of facts and she knew what she was going to say, however her delivery was poor and it was simply because she wasn't bold enough to buttress her point convincingly. The opponent on the other hand kept dangling around just one point, but the way he divided his point and the boldness in his delivery, you may not notice that what he said in the first round was similar to what he said in the second and third, they are all same points, but the cheers of the crowd sealed the victory for him.

It would have been awesome if this rule only applied to a debate where the person who has enough facts to win loses to the other who apparently is wrong, but we see this play out in our every day life. People have lost a case because of poor explanation while the main culprits tries to find a single fault and hang on to it with all boldness and keep shutting out the one who was truly wronged, and since God seldom come down immediately to interfere physically in public arguments, they could lose that argument and even get more insulted and angrier, but all this isn't anyone's fault, they should try finding the main fault and fixing it., the main fault is not being bold enough.

Haven't you heard of how real criminals would search for a good lawyer to help them handle their case, if they were no doubt wrong and they knew they should be punished for their crimes why then would they go the extra mile to pay a good lawyer? Simply because of the law of boldness, seeing one is bold already tells that such person may be right, we just believe that the person staggering to explain is the liar, as they are finding more lies to say and since it's a lie they have to think deep about it, that is why they aren't bold, while this is often untrue, the reason for the staggering words could simply be their personalities.

No wonder stammers are often angry people, even when they are wronged and try to explain to people that this person did wrong to me, before they could fix words together, the person had already explain from his perspective, thereby telling the story to fit himself, such moments feels suffocating and hands tied, what then can they do, nothing but increased anger, before you could say hey, boom a blow has been thrown and it's become a full blown out fight, so you really don't want to lie against a stammer, it's unfair also. However I know there is a way out of stammering or at least a procedure to reducing it, some day I'll write intensively about it, cause I too was a stammer as a child, a bad one at that.

Boldness is a gift, for real it's a gift, it hardly ever go wrong. There are positions you'll only attain when you've display a level of boldness. The world currently is in a place where people are fed up and tired but powerless, they long for that one person who can set things right, everyone is bold indoor but scared outdoor. The moment they can find that person who can be bold both indoor and outdoor as well as can express their feelings adequately, they would all rush to support from behind, they would give all they have in support, both riches and attention, boldness is a gift, though can be risky but benefits will surely emerge that compensates for the risks taken.

Time can be challenging for everyone, and there are situations that no one can stand in for us, unlike a national crisis where we long for a bold patriotic citizen, or a family issue that we hope for a bold relative to speak on our behalf, there are situations where we are alone and nothing would change as long as we don't act, how long can we bear if we can't take bold steps for ourselves. Moreover everyone has to stop waiting for someone else to do the job, we are as much human as any one else, from every individual comes a family and also comes a long line of children running into lineages, so if you feel like you live a simple life then you aren't aware of the multitude coming from you, you need to know you're a leader also and act as it.

Boldness is for everyone to get, why are you scared in the first place, who are you scared of, what are you scared of, the person or the thing you're scared of are they above human. As much as we must have respect and be submissive to authority, we must do this out of respect and not because we are afraid. You can be bold and yet respectful to your boss, you can be bold and still be submissive, life teaches everyone the essence of humility and respect without displacing the importance of being bold, in fact our authorities would respect us more and place more into our hands when they realize we are not scared of them rather we genuinely honor them.

Some day later in the future we would realize how needless our days of fretting was, we would see clearly how those years we weren't bold enough to speak out were so unnecessary, especially as we begin to see people we once were scared off died and all their powers forgotten, then we start to get a clearer picture about life as its just for a time and everyone single person is nothing but pencil in the hands of our creator, meaning all this while we have been scared of the wrong people, not being bold to stand up for what's right, when it should be only God we truly fear. It's best we read to learn, thereafter make up our hearts to act right, boldness is a gift. The world needs bold people, God himself needs people to be bold.

Thanks For Reading, I hope this article stirs up your mind to be bolder, as I'm sure with boldness comes a lot of benefits to enjoy in life.