A Happy Relationship

We all want or hope to get married someday. And most importantly, to the person we love. We want to live and grow old with that person.

From what I heard, most of the time, you get to know your partner's true colour more when you are married. This is because you guys are now living together. Whether the person is neat or has just been forming to be a neat person, you will get to know eventually. But I usually wonder why it takes long for us to realize this, to see our spouse's faults and flaws. Or maybe we were just blinded by our love for that person. That's why you hear some married people say: I didn't know he was like this or she wasn't this way when I married her. Some even go to the extent of saying: if I knew she was like this I wouldn't have married her or if I knew this side of him, I would have just said NO to his proposal.

We all want a happy marriage. I believe we can achieve that. Many have failed in the school of marriage and considering this might discourage one from getting married. But, look on the bright side, a lot of people are in thriving marriages, happy and content.

We have to put God first too. God is love.He would help us to live in love with one another as long as we always ask for His help and walk according to his will.

I also want to believe that communication is key. We communicate our feelings, emotions and thoughts. We should learn to carry each other's burdens and rejoice in each other's happiness. We should never underestimate the power of communication. Couples should laugh, fight, smile, talk, gist as many times as possible.

Well, I would like your opinion on what I am about to share. I have a friend that just got engaged. She has Beena with this guy for about three years now. She claims she loves him. They are yyvery close. She knows and visits his parents likewise him. Her boyfriend or should I say fiance has anger issues. He has never beaten her but on countless occasions she has told me he raises his voice at her. There are times they would have a disagreement and he would send her out of the house and sometimes out of the car. To me, he is kind of violent. I've told her to not do something she will later regret. Although, there is no perfect person anywhere but we shouldn't endure what will later affect us in the future. So, what do you think about this? Do you think she should call it quit or continue? I would appreciate if you comment on this. Thank you!