@Bisolammy 22 September 2022

Learn How To Say Sorry. I was searching for some articles to read and I found one. It was about learning how to say sorry. I have met a lot of people and I am very sure that you have also met different kinds of people. We all are indeed different people from different homes with different ways of reasoning. This means that we may not agree on the same thing. You may agree on this and I may agree on that simply because we are different people and we have lived in different areas and we have different experiences. Let's talk about learning how to say sorry. Let me share and experience with you all. I once dated a guy that we are always having some issues to sort or talk about every day. Most times it was always about the guy cheating on me but I realized that I will always be the one to say sorry. I think it is normal to say sorry simply because you want peace to reign and if you want peace to reign, one of both parties needs to succumb to the other so that peace will reign. I did this a lot as long as the relationship lasted. And one thing we should know is that if you are in a relationship with somebody, you should know what the person is capable of and you should know the kind of person that you deal with. I knew it does not know how to apologize or say sorry so I always take the blame on myself just for peace to reign. Guess what? It worked out. Me saying sorry made the relationship last for a while but we still broke up due to other issues. Have you ever said sorry when you were right? I know how sad it feels that you are apologizing for something that you didn't do wrong. It should make you upset. Yes!! We are human beings and these things are bound to happen. I also do not like to say to me whenever I am not wrong but when I realize that my partner is not ready to say sorry too I just have to say it because I want peace to reign. What will you achieve when you say sorry? I mentioned it earlier. You will achieve peace. Do you think peace is not an achievement? If you think it is not, then what is it? Do you know how many people are praying for them to be at peace? Peace is an achievement on its own.Saying sorry also makes you respected. It's a lot of courage to take the blame upon yourself just because you want to succumb to your partner. It takes maturity to do that. Your partner or whoever you deal with will also respect you for that. That's aside. Why can't you say sorry? I think it is pride. Pride is the major reason you wouldn't want to say sorry. What's the pride for? Why the pride? Some people may go as far as not talking to the other person again because their out is too heavy to say sorry. Pride comes before fall. Pride destroys things. If some people could say sorry when they had issues with other people, they may not have too many enemies. If some countries could say sorry and try to settle things amicably with the other country, they may not fight a war. I used to be very proud until I got out of my home. I gained admission into the University and began to move with different people. I learnt this from them, especially my best friend. She is one of the major people who have taught me to make peace and to say sorry. I respected the opinion and took the opportunity. What if I tell you that saying sorry makes you at peace with yourself? It makes you feel free because you're holding no grudges with anybody. Saying sorry earns you respect. Saying sorry let's peace reign. Saying sorry makes you at peace with yourself and with every other person. Saying sorry lets your relationship continue and also prepares you to fight another fight. Don't get me wrong, it means you know how to fight. A good fighter resolves the fight and another one will still happen, they'll resolve it and it will continue that way. Learn how to say sorry today!!!!