It's Just An Advice

I've been in the world for about twenty years and I've been able to learn a lot of things likewise you too. But there's this aspect that has always been in my mind and I decided to share it so that if you're guilty, you'll make amends. And I'm sure you'll learn a bit from it

I want to talk about "Anger". I really do not know where to start from but I'd start anyhow. Anger is a form of aggression proved by antagonism when someone has done you wrong. It's quite understandable to get angry but do not let it be everytime. Sometimes you just have to be calm and observe things around you before you start to burn. What observation do you think I'm talking about? Let me explain here. At times, you'd find out that someone offends you and it's really going to hurt you so bad but at times you have to look around or chill and you may eventually find out that it's not the person's fault. Everything happens for a reason.

Let me give you a short story.

Miriam got married to Khalid. This marriage has lasted for over twenty years. But guess what? Miriam tends to be very hot tempered. She gets angry at every little thing. It's normal to get angry but why would you get angry at everything. Isn't it weird? She has been known by her family members to get angry at everything so they minor thing. Luckily, she has a very gentle and caring husband. He's also sick and tired of the attitude but he kept on pushing. Her children are also tired of the attitude but they're used to it. Can you ever be used to it? Everyone is tired of her but what do they do?

It has been known generally that she's an hot tempered person so they mind what they say around her. And this man doesn't even beat her. Can't you see he's really trying? He has managed to be with the kind of woman that gets angry, lay curse on kids when she's angry and some sort of bad behaviours. How many men would remain in this kind of marriage? How many? This question is to you reading this, will you wait?

On a beautiful Sunday, Khalid's sister gave a call and spoke with Miriam. She advised Miriam to get a land very close to her place since it's still at it's cheap price. Immediately Miriam was told, she flared up and began to complain. She complained of Khalid's sister mocking her. How? It's just an advice for you to get a land. Ever since that night, she began to keep malice with her husband. The third night, she decided say everything she had inside her. She laid curses on her husband and said all kind of words. Khalid was frustrated but didn't touch her. What a man!!! In the midnight, she wanted to open the door and leave. Like, woman!!! Where are you going to? Khalid tried locking the door but she later ran away.

She spent over four days outside without any of her kids calling her or reaching out to her. She felt very bad and regretted her actions. She later came back to the house and her husband accepted her back. She realized that everything has changed. She realized how they were living peacefully without her. She realized she's the problem of the family. Whenever you notice that people find peace when you're not around, check yourself. That means there's something wrong with you. Wherever you are, you need to make peace. Do not let people know you for being loquacious, hot tempered, ill mannered or having a very obvious bad behaviour. We all have bad behaviours but let it be with limits.

If you were the one, would you accept that kind of woman back into your life?

If you were the one, would you advice such person again?