Being materialistic is like a disease these days and no one is untouched by it. It is the outcome of our necessity as well as desire. Things are changing so fast and with that our race to keep up with the change. Previously people used to change things when it got defective but now we change things because the technology of the fashion has changed. As these two are changing pretty fast so are our expenses. That’s why we are in a race to earn more money. We don’t need it to live a decent life but we need it to keep up with the change.
Women are considered more materialistic. And in that girlfriends have a special place. Even if both are earning, then also the girlfriend will expect that the boyfriend should bear all expenses of her, even the mobile data recharge. In this men are equally responsible because they do not draw a line.
Men should keep track of these things to identify if their girlfriend is over materialistic.
Over demanding
When your girl friend is over demanding about materialistic things and gets angry every time you don’t give them that thing, or delay giving that thing, then it is a sure shot sign that she is over materialistic. She will never understand and will take offense if you try to reason with her. Her demands will range from new dress to shoes to hand bags to ornaments and make up items. It can go up to costly mobile phones also. She will expect that you take her out for shopping frequently and if you do not do it then she will emotionally manipulate you to do so.
Never satisfied
She will never be satisfied with whatever you have given her and will always demand more from you. The number of dresses you give her will always seem to be less. The amount of time you devote for her will always seem to be less. She will make you feel that way one way or the other. She will make comparison with her other friends boyfriends, how much they look after her. She will make you feel inferior. She may also threaten you that she will leave you for someone else.
Always talking about luxury
Her parents may not be able to afford branded clothes for her but she will demand it from you. Her choice of items will be on the luxurious side, because it will be free for her. The society is so obsessed with brands and her peer pressure will make her demand the best things always. She will not spend her money on these things but yours. If she is the type who is always showing off then you should be careful. You will be financially drained to keep up with her demands.
Always hanging out with you
She will demand your full attention all the time and will expect that you take her to lunch and dinner always. She will also interfere when you are busy and will not take a no for an answer. The more she will hang out with you the more she will have the opportunity to pester you to get her new things.
So these are the things which will help you identify if you are stuck with an over materialistic girlfriend. This can be the case with your wife also. If your wife turns out to be like this then you are in a much more difficult situation. It will be better for you to get out of such a relationship if you are feeling suffocated due to these things because you will never be at peace. I have seen so many relationships and marriage break due to these reasons. Girls need to be reasonable in this matter and don’t treat their boyfriend as ATM machine.
Don't ever marry a materialistic gf, she will make you broke 🤣