Studying oneself is the most difficult art

Surely it has happened to you, that when you try on a garment or when you want to make a hairstyle, once you dare, you feel that it is not right or that you look ridiculous, even though you look exactly as you imagined. Inside you, you have a need for acceptance that you don't realize, and it is when you feel that that incredible outfit you had chosen for yourself "doesn't fit you", but, ask yourself for a moment, it doesn't fit you or that person you thought of at the moment you read this, that's right, that same person (and another big group) may have the biggest responsibility in you today not feeling confident with the clothes you like and would like to wear, or with the hairstyle you would like to have. The words that are said to us regarding our appearance trigger these types of decisions in us later on because we keep thinking about them, and that the people who make these types of comments are right.....

It is possible that your insecurity and lack of love for yourself comes from childhood. I'm sure you're asking yourself, "How can that be possible?". Here I am going to give you an answer that will clarify this doubt and many more.

There are many people who in their childhood suffered from many unwelcome comments about their appearance, these words can come both from other children and from their own relatives.

It is no secret that years ago you had to try to "fit in" by doing things or using styles that deep down you knew were not yours.

So, from a very young age you were taught that you had to have a perfect stereotype, if your body, your skin, your face or your clothes were not the right ones, you were simply someone out of place, a person who could not be taken into account.

What I mean by this, is that some people have been told this since they were little, criticizing their essence and changing it, hence insecurity grows, because you think you are not enough to belong. Sometimes they see other people and want to be like them.

Personally, I am glad that times are changing and all that perfect stereotype is diminishing in several places in the world, that is, they begin to respect each person regardless of their clothes, skin, face or body. After all, the essence of every human being comes from their personality.

Now it is okay to be you, so don't be afraid to move forward, heal, grow and love yourself, because, although it is a very difficult process self-love is the purest that exists in the end.

No matter what others say about you, stay away from that kind of people, they are toxic and many times they only want to hurt you. Surround yourself with people with good vibes, support and sincerity that is never lacking.

Work on yourself, self-love is not easy, studying and accepting yourself is not easy, it is a very strong process, but believe me, the result is the most satisfactory. Look back and be grateful for every teaching moment, because thanks to those actions you moved forward and now you are here, loving yourself and achieving your goals, without fears and knowing that you are enough to do the things you long for.

Just remember that you are not obligated to have self-love, we are not the ones who must do it, only you can propose it and achieve it.

Your well-being, your mental health is also important, therefore, we must take care of ourselves.

This is not just an article, but it can be the answer to everything, I hope it helps you in this process.

Tell me, what did you think?