To all single mums out there.

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An open letter to all single mums for this "fathers day"

I know for sure, you're probably wishing that you're with your partner right now, that you both did not go on separate ways -- well, maybe for the sake of your child not having a father to greet on fathers day, I guess. "Everything happens for a reason" that's what they all say, right? You may believe it or not, your choice.

Not having a father, like, a biological father is hard. Explaining it over and over to a child who longs for a father's love...and it may break our hearts as a mother who could not do anything about this matter. Nonetheless, things happened because of (probably) one of the reasons:

  1. Things between you and your partner did not go well before knowing you both are having a child

  2. The father never intended to have a family with you.

  3. Everything won't work out even if you or the father stays for the sake of the baby

  4. You decided to raise the baby alone

...and the list goes on.

Hence, whatever reason it maybe, as a mother, let us all be patient with our little ones. Until they understand why he/she is in this situation. Also, let's not teach them to keep grudges on people who probably did us wrong, instead, teach them to forgive, that they may be able to understand why people can be cruel sometimes and teach them how to still go on whatever they will be going through.

Communication and comprehension is the key.

To all single mums out there, this is for you!

YOU ARE STRONG, YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL, YOU ARE WORTHY AND YOU WILL ALWAYS HAVE AN ANGEL BESIDE YOU. KEEP THE FAITH AND CONTINUE TO LOVE! ❤️

Sending love,

Elli "belly"

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hello it seems you have problem about families hehe or on your own

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User's avatar mikaella27
4 years ago

Well, not really. Am all good. I just wanted to let all the single mums know especially who are currently struggling in their situation right now, that all will be okay. Writing doesn't always mean it's you that's experiencing it. It could be for a general audience or not. 👍

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User's avatar Belly
4 years ago

Oh sorry hehe btw thanks to your article its good

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User's avatar mikaella27
4 years ago

Wow this post. I am very excited to read out this post about single mums. Thanks for outstanding post. Carry on.

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User's avatar Devbratoanu
4 years ago

Yes, my wife was a single mom before we got married. Don't worry right person will come into your life. You can do it.

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User's avatar sirmagz32
4 years ago

I forgot to include this on my post. 👍 Thank you for the inspiration as well! ❤️ Much love for your family too!

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User's avatar Belly
4 years ago

I am a single mom, yes you're right.... Haooy father's day! It is not easy to be a mother and father of our children. But we are strong enough to handle every challenges in life. It is because we love our children.

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User's avatar jazzreggae13
4 years ago

Happy to know @jazzreggae13 that you are keeping it together! 💕 Much love! You are your child's stronghold and foundation! 💗 Happy fathers day! 😍

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User's avatar Belly
4 years ago

Hello I just wanna say that I am proud of you incase no one told you that yet today. You are such a strong woman and Im sure your child is proud that you are his/her mother. I wish you all the best in life. My mom is a singke parent too and Im proud of her for raising me and my siblings very well. Godbless

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User's avatar ughyannie
4 years ago

Aaaaaww 💕 thank you @ughyannie! That only proves that being a single mom is not an excuse to raise children well. ♥️

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User's avatar Belly
4 years ago

Single mom here... Happy father sa inio guys n mga tatay dto.... God bless all po more love... 🤗🤗🤗

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User's avatar BabyStrickland
4 years ago

Much love for you and your little one/s! 💕

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User's avatar Belly
4 years ago

I totally agree with you. Salute to all te single moms. They deserved to be greeted on father's day too!

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User's avatar ellimacandrea
4 years ago

So true! They are the strong hold foundation of a family without a father. Sacrificing a lot for their little ones. Such brave hearts 💕

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User's avatar Belly
4 years ago

This deserves an upvote. You make me miss my mom too. I know a lot of single moms and they are indeed brave. They have to be. 😊

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User's avatar ellimacandrea
4 years ago

Thank you so much! 💕

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User's avatar Belly
4 years ago

My children never cared about not having a father. A child does not miss what it does not know. This idea we talk into their heads. Dr. Phill once had a tv show about it.

Father's day isn't celebrated worldwide. If little children make something at school they can give it to their mother since the mother is a father too or to someone else who cares about the child. It's not more than a commercial day. Same with mother's day and Valentine's Day. You can make your own celebration out of it, give it a religious twist, or let it be. Father's day is luxury.

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User's avatar wakeupkitty
4 years ago

I'm a product of fatherless child, it's not really easy though but as I grew older and understand better, I didn't mind at all. But if you have the chance to give your child a father at your own cost it's much more better, but if you've done your part and can't do anymore to save the relationship/marriage then let it go. Your child will understand soon, just guide and always remind them no matter what happens with or without fathey you're always be there as a mother. It's better without a father than without a mother.

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User's avatar Eybyoung
4 years ago

What a beautifull article.. Im a single mom too.. a mother and a father to my 4children.. Its not that easy but because of my children i will do all my best to give them a good future. Sometimes i see the tears in their eyes for dont having a father. And as a mother it killing me inside but i always tell them how much i loved them.. even though their father dont care for them. I will always be to their side no matter what happens.

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User's avatar Elleironc
4 years ago
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