The beautiful beginning

Love is a beautiful thing and it is a beautiful beginning to behold, the sound of the word love makes my heart tickles😘😘😘😘.

I witnessed a wedding ceremony today and i was so impressed because their love story was interesting. The smile on their faces, their dancing steps, all the vibes and fun. On my sitted position I was smiling and thinking of how this beautiful beginning will be in the nearest future. I wished them happy married life. During the pastor's charge for the couples he mentioned something that really touched my heart, he said they should prepare for the storm of life that no matter how sweet and fun their marriage is there will be storm.

The beginning of a love story is always an interesting one but when this storm comes, will they be capable enough to overcome it? I remembered someone telling me last week that am due for marriage 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I laughed myself out that day because marriage ehn haaaaa is an institution that you cannot graduate from. I replied with I don't have what to go with yet so I 'll better take my time and be a role model than go and come back in few years with the story "had I known".

Age isn't a barrier for marriage, you might marry early and have a lovely and fruitful relationship and you can marry late and still end up in a big mess. One thing I want us to know today is that marriage is not a competition, don't go into marriage because all your friends are married remaining only you, don't get married because there's pressure on you to get married, those pressurizing you to get married won't be there to manage your home with you, it will become your load to carry even your parents won't be there to help you carry it, that's why is not something you should rush into. Another thing is marriage is not a do or die affair ooo, if it's not working anymore walk out of it don't die there caring about what people will say, this same people will laugh at you in the end when you eventually loose your life in the journey.

A cousin of mine got married at 24 years and since then whenever my mom wants to address me she normally used her as an example to me, I told her one day because she married at 24 that's not a pass for me also to get married at 24, she was read then that's why she thinks marriage is the next thing and good for her she is a mother today but it will be good for us to take our time and go with all we will need not coming back to your parents after a while saying you didn't know that's how marriage is. Learn the basic things of life, be independent and have the picture of a family you want to build, am not married yet but I already have the picture of how I wanted my family to be, I want to start with a beautiful beginning, face the storm and overcome it and live my life happily ever after with my husband and children.

In conclusion

My advice to every young lady out there, make the lord your foundation that's all you need for a success life in marriage. As you read I hope you will learn one or two things.

I hope you enjoy reading this and I will be expecting your comments in my box. Enjoyyy.