Parenthood

Parenthood is a phase in one's life that we will go through that is if we wish, not everyone on earth wants to become a parent later in future but as for me I would love to be a parent when the time comes. Being a parent requires alot more than what we just say with our mouth.

Being a parent requires taking up lots of responsibilities, I mean a lot. Some times I will sit and observe my parents and pity the way they struggle just to make sure I and my siblings are okay. My dad is one kind workaholic, that man will go extra miles to make sure the family is comfortable at his own detriment, sometimes I wish I could just get rich suddenly and stop all his struggling but everything in life has its own appointed time. Same goes to my mom, she go to work early in the morning, rushed back home to prepare food, take care of the house and we the children.

Parenthood is not something only the father can handle neither the mother too, they have to be in one accord to successfully parent their children, parenting is a difficult task, bringing up a child in a Godly way is not an easy job, raising a successful ward is a full time job. Am not saying single parents can raise successful children ooo but I believe it's something that must be done by the two parties. The world today is full of pressure either from friends or families that's why the new generations needs to be brought up in a way for us to have a peaceful society. There are lots of kids out there that have both parents and still turn out as nonetity because there is no proper care for them.

In conclusion

Proper parenting requires sacrifices, a parent that can't make sacrifices for his or her children is not qualified to be called a parent. A parent go extra miles to make his or her family comfortable. Maintaining a home in peace and harmony it's no joke, it takes patience,understanding, tolerance, common sense to direct the affairs of the home successfully. Many young lads go into marriage nowadays with no any sense of parenting. They don't know how to care for the husband or wife talkless of the children they gave birth to, later this leads to divorce leaving my children to become fatherless and motherless. Taking care of the children is much work than the nine months period of pregnancy because children grow in stages, you have to monitor these stages and train them through it successfully. Before going into parenthood know what it takes to be a parent so as to enjoy that phase of life.

I hope you enjoy reading this and I will be expecting your comments in my box. Enjoyyy.