About love- Ask me challenge

It was at least a week since I found this challenge and wanted to take part in it. Unfortunately, in the meantime, a few things happened in my life that made me want to think about everything but not love. Hehe !! But I won't be single forever. But if I will, I can still talk about things related to love. No? Yes!

When I find a challenge, I read the article I just found on the one hand, and the article from the creator of the challenge on the other. Now it didn't go that easy. But that's why it was funny. So I first found an article by @Expelliarmus30 who wrote that she had read about the challenge in the article of @Kleah97 . I also read her article in which she was inspired by @OfficialGamboaLikeUs 's article who found this challange when she visited @ExpertWritter . So I ended up looking for ExpertWritter article, and I think the research ended here. So this is my entry for the challenge called Ask me challenge by ExpertWritter. Tell me if I am wrong and I lost the clues somewhere. Hehe! 😄

Although it’s already March on the other side of the planet, February 28th is still late at night, so I’ll be able to publish the article in Love Month. Hurray! Better late than never.

I chose some questions and I will answer them now.

What's your type?

I can’t say for sure that I have a specific type, I mean I’m not only willing to date men with blond hair and blue eyes or anything like that.

When I think of looks, I love tall men. Don’t be too fat, too thin, or too muscular like the fitness models. So his physique should be average but still masculine.

Be firm but not aggressive or commanding. Be smart. He doesn’t have to be an atomic physicist, but I can also talk to him about serious things and be able to write correctly. Be honest! This is one of my most important expectations. I don’t like to be beaten up, no matter how insignificant it is. Be polite and humorous.

I hope you understand what I mean by that, otherwise I don’t even know how to write; he should not be a gray mouse.

Chocolates or flowers?

Lots and lots of chocolate and sometimes flowers. Hehe! For some reason, I feel the flower is a more romantic gesture than the chocolate and the male-female role feels better. On the other hand, I think if I got flowers every single day, or only on holidays as part of the “mandatory package,” it would no longer be as magical as it should be. So in my eyes, getting a flower by surprise is the most ideal.

Ideal place for a date

I think it's the worst first date to go to the movies. Ahh ... who's the stupid guy who figured out that boys would call a girl to the cinema if they wanted to get to know her better? Just think about it, you sit in the cinema and watch the movie. You can’t talk, which would be very important on a first date. You don’t really get to know each other’s behavior either, unlike in a restaurant, for example. A restaurant is a good place to date. Or a nice park where you can walk, chat or have a picnic. Definitely the right place where they were mostly listening each other and not a movie or just a band.

Any place can be ideal for a date. It depends on whether the date is the first or twentieth date and whether any encounter is called a date.

Older or younger?

Well, age is just a number. A young boy can behave like an old man, and a middle-aged man can also play youthful. Personality is more important. My opinion is mostly confirmed by the fact that my son's father is 5 years younger than me and my previous partner I was very much in love with was 20 years older than me.

What is love?

When he is more important to you than yourself. Maybe it sounds weird or martyrdom. But this is the truth. Think about it. When you love someone, the main condition for all your actions is to be good to them. Compromises, resignation. On both sides, of course, because it’s so ideal. Love when you don't care who says what, he's the only one for you. Love is when you miss him even when he hasn't closed the door behind him to leave for a hour. When you tell all your secrets without thinking and you’re not afraid for a moment that it’s embarrassing.

At the moment, I can’t really imagine being in love again and I don’t think I want it at the moment. It may be a strange analogy, but it’s like I’m a dilapidated house that needs to be renovated, repaired before a new occupant can arrive.

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