The truth of love

Here's @BRISTY1820 Today I have come up with a beautiful story about the truth of love , 😍I think you all will enjoy reading this story. Now let's go....

One day a boy suddenly asked his father, "Father, what is love?" The father was surprised to hear the boy's question and remained silent for a while. After a while the boy said to his father again that what happened, father! Then Dad said that he has to do something to find the answer to this question. And asked, " Are you ready to work?" The boy agreed.

Dad said that he has to find the biggest and most beautiful flower in the rose garden behind their house. But the condition is that once he go ahead without liking the flower, he will not be able to come back to that flower again. Hearing his father's words, the boy ran to the back rose garden and saw a large and beautiful rose in the first row. But when the boy went to pick the flower, he thought to himself that maybe if he went inside the garden a little bigger and more beautiful flowers could be seen. Going a little farther, he saw another large and beautiful rose. But he did not pick it up.

The boy thought that maybe a little more beautiful roses were waiting for him when he went inside the garden. Thinking about this when the boy reached the end of the garden.......He was not at all ready to see what he saw then! He realized that he was leaving behind all the big and beautiful roses. The last part of the garden is filled with small roses and buds. When he returned to his father, he could not take a single rose with him. Seeing the sad face of the boy, the father smiled softly and said that he had left all the good flowers behind to go around the garden looking for the best flower. And when he finally realize that he made a mistake, he has no way to get back to that best flower.

People make this mistake. In the intoxication of finding a better life partner, one person after another moves forward.

The son understood his mistake after hearing his father's reply, but he told his father that he understood it, but his father did not say what love is! Then the father told that his son to do another thing, bring the biggest and most beautiful flower from the sunflower garden in front of their house. However, the rules are the same as before. Once the flower is left behind, it will not be able to return. This time the boy went to the sunflower garden, but began to look very carefully so as not to make the same mistake as before. Seeing a fairly large flower in the middle of the garden, the boy picked it up and returned to his father. The father saw the flower in the son's hand and said that this time he must have gone to the end of the garden ?? The boy said in reply, "No, he didn't go." Hearing the boy's reply, his father began to say that this is why he did not return empty-handed. This time, without letting his greed grow, he picked a flower of his choice from the middle of the garden. And that's exactly what love is.💗💞

That's correct point. When you give up the desire to find someone better, to be satisfied with who you got, you will realize that you have truly loved someone. At present we are looking for the people of the mind in one person after another. But the man of the mind is the one...... After finding that person, the desire to find someone else goes away.

But do we value true love????

Value is found in what we are willing to give in exchange for something. The value of love is found through dedication and devotion to something or someone you love.

But now the question may arise in everyone's mind that...what are you willing to give in exchange for love?

Everything in life is an exchange of give and take. Nothing is gained without some kind of sacrifice. An inhale must be exchanged for an exhale or human life cannot exist. Love is exciting, enticing but it can also be painful, disappointing and empty. However, when love comes to you use it to make yourself a better person. We just have to remember that love always involves compromise. It requires the ability to back down even when you think you are right. Perspective and attitude determine whether love lives or dies. Romantic love is a kind of love, but the love of family, friends, interests, work and life is also the aspect of love that fills the heart and nourishes the soul.

Don’t get me wrong, I believe we should place our family over everything, but I don’t think love is limited to family or romance. There are different classes and categories within the love spectrum. We have to realize that it’s not a part of everyone’s life and ask ourselves if we should take the other people matter mindset to another level as a society and develop a new meaning of love — a love for everyone. Romantic love can be a burst of strong energy, but it will evaporate and change over time. How it changes is based on the absence or presence of true love. So do not think yourself unfortunate if you have loved and lost. Love comes and love goes without cause or reason. It’s whimsical and it comes as it will. No amount of frustration and pain will bring it back. Love like anything of value requires time and patients so it can gestate and mature. I myself just hate fake friendship, fake showoff, fake care. I have seen so many this kind of people like my friends and relatives. I just want to see people’s real face. Don’t show what you are not. For gainnig something, don’t do fake promise just. I hate this kind of people. If you are telling some bitter words on my face, I will accept it happily cause it’s you what you are. Just donot be fake. If you are not able to do anything, tell it on my face. Just donot show that you keep promise..... If you are not doing it. I’m not saying we have to change our mindsets completely and only live for others. However, I am convinced it’s our responsibility to support and be there for one another. Because of society and its tendencies to sometimes be hostile, we tend to think twice about loving one another. It scares us to be seen as weak.

A friend of mine wanted to know about the truth of love, I want to give him this message through this article that we learn from our mistakes and believe me when I say “We value love when it is lost and not available to us”. To know love you must experience both the pleasure and the pain. Still; love is a treasure — value it. I hope my answer is of some help to you. Have a great time and be blessed.😍

Thanks to all for enjoying my article 💕