Comparison kills creativity..
Assalam o alaikum Dear Readers!!
Happy Sunday and fun day to all of you guys.
I chose the title of this article because today my friend was saying that he is very incompetent and nill in his work. He called me and share all his worries with me. I listened to his words in silence. I didn't want to explain it to him at that time because if I had started lecturing him then he would not have shared his words, his worries with me.
Listening to your friend quietly and making him feel that, "you are with him" is an art.
My friend's sketching is very good. And he had the competition in the university in which he came third. And it was really a big success for him. But he is not happy with his position and success. He could not feel his position. The only thing on his mind was why he didn't come first and second. He thought he didn't come first because may be his sketching was not good. He was thinking just one side.
After a while I called him and directly said when you are giving the treat?? You come third in your entire batch. He just passing a sad smile. I then asked him how many people has participated in the competition bruh? He told me that 20 people.
I told him that you can't enjoy your success just because of your two people. Have you forgotten 17 people you defeated? Your sketching was good then you were selected and you came third. Why no other came third? Don't waste your creativity behind others. Enjoy your Victory. And If you don't support your skills, no one else will.
After sometime, he feels good guys. He just needed a supportive and motivated words. We must never underestimate our skills guys. We shouldn't look at our competitors with envy but we should learn from them. If I may say, a lot of people here wrote great articles. But after reading those articles, I never underestimate my articles. Because my articles is based on my thoughts. Whatever I write, I'm happy with my words. Yeah but I learn many things from other articles, it's not means that I demotivated my own article. I respect my words. I respect other writers.
Learn to give yourself importance to keep yourself happy.
I think it's enough for today. Thank you for your precious time. How's your day going on guy's? I hope you spend your day with happiness and full of prosperity. Don't forget to help others. Help other's makes your day peaceful. Today is Sunday, so enjoy it with your family.
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Peace.....
Benefits of a good friend, assuming he never had a friend like you he might eventually give up on sketching