There are no people who did not make a mistake. At some point in life, people make mistakes, hurt the feelings of others, do injustice to others. Injustice or mistake results in guilt or remorse. Failure to use this sense of guilt or remorse in a positive way can lead to severe psychological reactions. Sin can destroy self-confidence, destroy self-esteem, and ruin the joy of life. Feelings of guilt can lead to complex illnesses and even cancer. But with a little effort you can turn guilt or remorse into positive energy. You can easily transform your guilt into future success by taking the following 6 steps. Your guilt or remorse can become a tool for your self-construction.
1. Consider guilt as a warning sign:
Any guilt reminds me that something is going a little wrong. Repentance becomes your number one friend whenever guilt makes you look back, review your actions, change your behavior. Consider the famous American singer Neil Diamond. When Neil Diamond rose to prominence in 1982, he took a four-year break from music. The reason was a sting of conscience. He said to himself, the first marriage was divorced. I don't want a second marriage to break up. He spent the whole 48 months with himself, his wife and children. Neil Diamond felt the repetition of the same mistake through this break. After 4 years he discovered himself as a calm and happy man. On stage he got much easier fluency than before. As a person, he is a better person than before.
2. Feel the guilt:
When a person corrects his wrong, harmful, aggressive, hateful and destructive behavior by responding to guilt or remorse, this guilt is transformed into a supportive force for self-development. So if you do something wrong or wrong to yourself or to people, you must repent. Repentance has the power to change evil into good.
3. Analyze guilt:
Guilt can be reduced or corrected by careful analysis. Even it can be completely eliminated. Working woman Nasreen used to suffer from guilt whenever her daughter fell ill. He works. She can't take care of her properly so she gets sick. This was his idea. When he told me about this problem, I asked him to analyze the whole matter in the light of reality. He saw that there was no alternative source of income to support his daughter. So it is not possible for him to quit his job. Since this is not possible, there is no reason to feel guilty about it. Since Nasreen analyzed her guilt in the light of reality and realized that it was not her intentional crime, this guilt could no longer have a detrimental effect on her or her daughter's life.
4. Do the right thing:
Analyze your guilt and take reasonable action. There is nothing you can do or have done wrong take corrective action to eliminate this guilt. If necessary, apologize, if there is an opportunity to correct the mistake, correct the mistake. Don't let guilt make you do something unreasonable and unnecessary. This is the case in America. A wealthy man built a tombstone for his dead brother, with a stone-sized Mercedes-Benz car model. It looks like a Mercedes car.
The sculptor made a model of the car after working for a year from a single piece of stone. The cost is 60 lakh rupees. The reason for making it is that the gentleman's brother was obsessed with the car. Due to the busy schedule, it was not bought today or tomorrow. Meanwhile, the brother died in the accident.
The gentleman fell into remorse. So as a toll on his guilt, he put a stone car on his brother's grave. It is a kind of extreme measure. It can also be called madness. Without all this, if he donated the money to the service of humanity, people would benefit and his brother's soul would also get peace. If this ever happens to you, spend money on humanitarian work. The soul of the dead will find peace.
5. No one is above mistakes:
There is no man in the world who has not made a mistake. So if you ever make a mistake, admit it. Apologize. Forgive yourself. Always remember, you are not above mistakes. You can be wrong. So do not regret the mistake unnecessarily and unnecessarily. Start all over again by apologizing and forgiving.
6. Learn from mistakes:
Only fools repeat the same mistake. The wise always learn from their mistakes. Refrains from repeating mistakes. So be careful not to repeat the same mistake or the same crime.
7. Repent:
If you have committed a crime or sin, sincerely repent. Pray to the Most Merciful. Repent. Seek the help of the Merciful to forgive your sins. You know the Creator is forgiving. Forgiveness is the greatest quality of the Creator. He can forgive any of your sins. So sincerely repent. Repentance will make you as innocent and promising as a newborn baby.
8. Forget it all, travel to a promising future:
Get rid of guilt or guilt after taking all the necessary steps to correct mistakes and change behavior. Forget past mistakes. Go ahead and drink to the potential future. It is very important to be able to forget this. Only when you get rid of guilt completely can you start a good new life. The strategies or measures mentioned above are very effective in overcoming guilt or guilt. You can easily lead a peaceful and glorious life by developing your eternal potential by following this strategy.
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