10 things you shouldn't do on the first date!
Most people have stage fright before the first date. Here are some helpful tips. ****10 things you shouldn't do on the first date!**** 1. Don't be late 2. Don't invite your friends 3. Don't look at other people 4. Don't talk about your ex 5. Don't check up your phone too much 6. Don't demonstrate poor listening skills 7. Don't tell your whole sad life story 8. Don't ask for a loan 9. Don't push for intimacy 10. Don't go to the bathroom and disappear
I have to share with you a **personal experience** from the first date. Not a very positive experience! The boy I went out on a date with suddenly started talking about how he wanted to get married, that he needed a woman's hand in the house. To all this he added the expectations of a woman to be a housewife, washing, cleaning, cooking, giving birth to five children. And he wasn't even asked anything. Man, I see you for the first time, cool down! Of course, there was no second date. After this, I only had one thing to tell him:
=============================================================== **Tell me, what would you not recommend to be done on the first date?** **Did something uncomfortable happen to you on the first date? What did that person say or do?**
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I join your instruction and agree with it in its entirety. I wouldn't touch anything. Thanks for the shared experience.
Mybe you should touch something, but look twice what are you touching
Maybe I should get some electricity. My hair would grow.
Hahaha you are so funny :) Kepp touching @TravelNomad, but make sure you have consent of other person
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To nbe nervousness is a normal thing. Just remember that you are not the only one in this situation, the person you are going on a date with is probably very nervous. Be yourself and let go your stage fright
Slažem s e s tobom u potpunosti.Moj prvi sastanak je bio davno.Tada nismo imali telefone,nismo pričali tužne priče .On je voleo Spinozu ,polagao Mašine 2,i pričao o Starom Mandarinu,pa smo se pronašli...
Looks like your date went perfectly. How long does your love last? Tell us more about your date
😂😂😂 such experiences. I've always been dragged as a third wheel to a close friend's online meet ups though or i get called in case of emergencies so i can relate a lot 😂😂😂
Oh, tird wheel... Is not very comfortable. You just need to light a candle and hold it, so they have a romantic atmosphere. :D :D Maybe its better to have double date, so you dont have to be alone or borred all the time.
Well my bf is a vampire and hates crowds a bit too much plus u want to make sure my friend is safe so i honestly don't mind at all
But, maybe it's better for him to you have a seat at another table. You can watch him/her so he can be safe, and still, he would have some privacy on the date.
Mnogu ubav tekst, i podsetuvanje na nesto koe za sekogas se pameti. I mnogu dobri soveti. Se slozuvam so tebe. Ovoj tekst me vrati vo mladost i me podseti na edni ubavi vreminja.....ubavi se i segasnite....No, sekogas treba da se bide vnimatelen so kogo se izleguva i so kogo se deli idninata. pozdrav
Thanks for your opinion. Have you ever experienced any discomfort on a first date?
11. bitna stvar glasi: Ne govori "nemoj ovo, nemoj ono...", na prvom spoju. Ne govori to ni na drugom, trećem. Ne govori niti nakon deset godina partnerstva.
Tacno, ono sto najvise nije okej na prvom, nije nikada okej.
The first impression consists of visual information, which includes the exterior and body language, auditory information, ie the melody of speech, pitch and speed of speech, and actually spoken words. You may have seen or met a person before your first date. Or maybe not, nowadays many couples meet through online forums, chat rooms or their date is organized by friends. In any case, the first date will be the one that will also be responsible for the first impression.My first date was a perfectly normal conversation between two lovers who go out for a drink together, chat, kiss and go home.
Yes, its not important how they set ap the date, but first impression is so important. Your date was perfect, thank you for sharing.
Ok za pocetak slozicu se sa tobom ali ne mogu a da se ne osvrnem na tacku 8 koja kaze ne trazi pozajmicu ??? Pa da li je moguce da ima i takvih frikova ja prosto ne mogu da verujem :D
A ima i toga,ceka da platis ti pice,jednom meni,jedan decko,jaoj ja nemam platiti,jer imas ti da platis,ili da bezimo hahahahah.
samo cu reci uzas, pa ni svojoj zeni posle 30 godina braka ne dozvoljavam da ona plati kada negde izadjemo iako nam je novcanik zajednicki do poslednjeg dinara, mozda je to zaostalo balkansko razmisljanje ali je tako.
Mile cim ti jos izlazis, onda nisi za onaj pilav. Jos je dobra situacija. A da treba da platis, treba. Mada nekad moze i zena da te iznenadi, kao ja sad mog muza za 10 godina braka (vikend u Vrnjackoj banji za koji nije ni znao)
ma izlazim tolko cesto kao sto pada sneg u paklu :D no salu na stranu tako sam vaspitan i smatram to nekim opstim bontonom, u javnosti bila to kafana kafic ili bilo sta red je da muskarac bude taj koji odradjuje finansijsku transakciju da se tako izrazim
Mile, to je ona stara garda, sto bi se reklo. nema vise takvih, ili su veoma retki. Donekle, moze da se smatra da je to neka ravnopravnost polova, ali s druge strane moze da bude da je muska sponzorusa, da tako kazem. Ima raznih...
znam, na zalost sve sunam vrednosti otisle dodjavola, u moje vreme i kada bi devojka bila imucnija od momka i placala njihove racune uvek bi krisom momku dala novac da ga on pruzi konobaru
Uh i to sam radila. I mogu reci nikad vise!!! Sama sam zaradila novac i platicu, nije problem. Ali taj je vrlo cesto to radio... Zeli da ispadne faca sa mojim novcem.
Postoje i muske i zenske spozoruse. Najbolje da se nadje neka ravnopravnost, jednom platim ja, drugi put ti... Kad se razvije odnos, onda vec moze ko kad ima i koliko....
Prvi sastanak kada mi je bio,tada nismo imali telefone,posle kad se uigras bude zabavno,ja ne mogu nikad da zaboravim,kad je meni jedan reko da nema platiti pice,da li ja imam da nam platim ili da bezimo.
What happened then Did you pay the bill or did you have to run away? Definitely another thing you shouldn’t do on the first date, and that is to ask the other person to pay the bill. Always have money with you.
Zato je najbolje kao u Indiji.Unaprijed dogovoreno.Nema prvod sestanka.Ima samo vjenčanje hahahah.Samo se šalim.
Taman sam pomislila da si ozbiljna haha. Ne znas dal je gore da ti ugovore brak ili da sam promasis svoj izbor
Prvi i posljednji sastanak.
I do not agree. I am absolutely against arranged marriages. I know, its a joke, but still I am against
I ja imam jednu angdotu. Mnnogo davno je bilo to. Decko me je toliko smarao i bio navalentan da me zagrli i poljubi, a ja sam u tom trenutku pocela da kijam. Reko- Vidis da imam alergiju na tebe, ajde pali. Bilo je i druge kad sam decka ugrizla i pustila mu krv. Eto, moras nekako od budala da se odbranis haha
it's a really bad situation. I can imagine how agressive he was when you had to defend yourself with your teeth.
He was boring, not agresive. He said- I will kiss you. I said- I will bite you if you try. He didn't believe so I did it hahaha
Ahaha
But, wait! What if he is into biting thing? What than? hahahaha
Hahaha... Tanja bre!!
Nije smesno ej.. mladost- ludost.. a i kad nesto ne moze, onda ne moze i tacka...
I tri tacke!
Idi bre spavaj.. imas li ti sat haha
Nemam, ja jedem puno nemam para za sat. Mora da zaradim.
samanji leba povecaj rad. Em ce da ima za sat em ce bude dobra linija
veoma lep post, bravo
Hvala :)
Sasvim sam sigurna da danjasnje sastanke ubija najvise gledanje u telefon. Iako je do sastanka tesko i doci bas zbog toga sto svi izadju i gledaju u telefone, a ne ljude oko sebe, na kraju sam sigurna da mnogi uprskaju na sastanku radeci istu stvar
To je bas tuzno. Takvim osobama bolje da ostanu kod kuce i nastave da gledaju u telefon i ne trose nicije vreme
I mostlu like steps that say "Do not bring your friends" and "Do not talk about your ex ". Those two are definitely the worst things that we can do on the first date. Bringing your friends means that you do not want ot be alone with the person that you are dating. And talking about your ex, is, let's say, rude. But, it is much more than rude.
Very nicely explained. Everyone would find themselves in an awkward situation if someone took friends with them or talked about ex
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