September 9, 2021. Thursday.

You are beautiful with God's Beauty (Luke 1:20)

I told myself and everyone once that we/you should be true to others and be who you are not minding the says of others .

And to the people or women's like me that having insecurities to themselves and insecure to others, feeling not complete, blessed and not contented, and feels like no one likes you and loves you, always remember God is with us always and reminding us that we're born to be beautiful in his eyes even if we don't see him physically but spiritually .
And this time im sharing to you and i have tips base on my experiences on how to be live positive:

1. Just be who you are and don't let.   others ruin your life. If you can live simply and appreciate what you have, acknowledge that everyone is different,  and stop comparing yourself to others you will experience joy and happiness in everyday life.

2.Just focus on your personal life and to the people surrounds you. Live in the moment and just focus on what is happening in front of them and paying attention to the person they are with.

3. Just don't mind others judgement and never compare yourself to others because you  know really who you are. The grass always seems to be greener on the other side but that does not mean it's actually greener. If you keep wishing, hoping, expecting something else and don't feel happy with what you already have you'll always feel miserable so it's better not to compare yourself to others because we have differences.

4.Just think positive always in life be a good example to others. You can choose to feel sad, annoyed and angry or stressed about the situation and turn it around and focus on the positive.

5.Just always pray and think God Because he's the reason why i'm still fighting and still continue to live and love. And if you have faith to him, all things will be possible. He's my weapon in every barriers or challenges i face everyday.

6. Have an open mind
It is also important because having a narrow mind can hurt you more than you think because we are naturally humans don't like being disapproved of.  We don't like feeling wrong because it's makes us/me feel rejected and unaccepted. So have an open mind rather than narrow mind.

7.  Avoid overanalyzing  This is what a lot of us do Overanalyzing things from relationships , career and finances.
Overanalyzing is dwelling on the thought about something,thinking about it over and over. Most of the time we never actually get an answer,  but a set of worries.

8. Let go of your need to control
Control makes you feel secure.  But at the same time, with control you also lose freedom. However, when you feel more secure because you take control of it. You lose control of yourself and very likely of those you try to control. This is because you become dependent of having control.

9. Be comfortable on your own skin  Everyone was born with a flow, No one is perfect .Accept yourself with what you're born with whether it to your background, skin, nose, eyes etc. You need to accept and love yourself.

10. Drop the resentment within 
Most of the time you hold onto anger   because you believe it. But the fact is you're actually hanging yourself up on something that's burning you within. When you hate someone, the fire is within your own mind.

• If you're struggling to let go, start with meditation , even meditation is hard because you need to control yourself not to think about anything while meditating. But that's the key! Being able to control one's thoughts and focus and keep one's mind at peace

• Stop worrying about things/future We worry because we're scared. However,worrying doesn't make anything  better unless we stop worrying and start taking actions towards our goals. If you're worried about your health when you get old, then you should start eating healthy and exercising regularly. If you're worried about your finances,  then you should start saving up for coming expenses.

That's all i know the tips on how to live positive even if we have insecurities to ourselves and other people. Because i'm one of the teenager who really experience that and now i'm sharing this all of  you.
And i hope it can help you to survive or overcome this challenge.
Have a nice reading 😘
And God bless you always readers ❣