In our everyday life, we get to see or encounter different positive things from other people that will make us feel motivated to do or have something like those as well.
Ideally, that something great belong to other people must be a dose of motivation for us, but unfortunately, other people perceive it as something that will be considered as their source of jealousy.
When other people show what they've got, including their achievements, strengths, and probably wealth, that's okay. We shouldn't restrict them from what they want to do especially if they are not stepping on other people's life and most definitely if they are not using other's possessions to lift themselves up.
You know what, don't easily conclude that a person is arrogant or just boosting around if they happened to post their achievements in their social media accounts because maybe they are just proud of what they have attained and their intention is to inspire others, not the other way around.
We shouldn't judge someone as arrogant just because they can buy expensive things because maybe they just want to treat themselves after a lot of hard work and effort they exerted to earned enough money for them.
We shouldn't criticize others just because they can buy what they want aside from what they really need. We can't just dictate them by saying that they should spend their money on more valuable things rather than using it for unnecessary spendings. Though, it's reasonable but who we are to care about what they want to do with the money they earned.
Isn't it their right and responsibility to use their own money with things they think could be worth it to be spent of?
Isn't it okay to treat ourselves for quite some time to at least motivate ourselves to do better again next time, to exert more effort to achieve double success for the second time around?
Isn't it okay to share our achievements to other people with the purpose of inspiring others to work harder and smarter to achieve such success as well?
The problem with insecure people is that they are not allowing themselves to be motivated with positive things coming from other people, but rather, they keep on letting themselves to be jealous upon things they don't have. They are not focusing on the brighter side of being exposed to other's achievements, but rather they think of other people as arrogant for sharing what they've got.
Isn't it too hard to accept that we have different timeline of being successful? That other people might have the things we don't have right now.
But, that will never be the reason for us to feel jealous upon others' achievements, but rather, we can help ourselves to do better by taking those things as a dose of motivation and not the source of jealousy.
CLOSING THOUGHTS
We should always keep in mind that everyone's achievements and great possessions didn't come from nothing. We should bear in mind that what they have right now might be something that they worked really hard to achieve. With that, if ever that they've got to share it with other people (may it be through personal communication or in social media world), don't consider them as arrogant or what, no matter what tone they have and especially if they are not really having that intension of boosting around.
Take those as our dose of motivation not a source of jealousy. Jealousy will do no good, but motivation could be our stepping stone to be on top of our dreams in the future.
Author's Note:
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Date Published: March 10, 2022
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Certain people really exist, they tend to get jealous instead of becoming motivated from other people's achievements. For me, I am always happy with what I have.