Is having Sex only required to keep relationship strong!

22-04-2022

Courtroom was full and honour able judge of the family court was listening arguments from both sides. It was the third hearing of a divorce case filed by a woman. After completing the arguments from both ends , judge took off the seat and went to her chamber. After 10 minutes She cam back in courtroom and announced the decision in favour of Rimsha and granted her permission to take divorce and ordered Farook to sign at divorce form. Farook starts crying after listening the judgment. His both kids , ages 2 and 4 , were with him too . He sighed the form and came out from court with lot of tears in eyes. I also comes out with lawyer because my name was in witness line from Farook side. I was totally in shock when I hear the judgment.

Farook married to Rimsha just 5 years back. They were happy and have good earnings business. Almighty Allah bless them two kids in these years . From last two years Farook falls in diabetes. The desiese make swere attack and he started insulin to control it.

One bad thing happened with him that he starts loosing his sex drive stemina which is very first victim of diabetes. Any person with diabetes will have poor sex drive and it is proven medically too. When a year passed Rimsha starts rude , unirrigated , querling behaviour with him. He try to convince his wife that it is natural due to diabetes but she didn't got the point.

On April 4 she filed a divorce case in court and she submitt her written statement that her husband can't fulfill her sexual desires and I can't live without it so grant me permission of divorce . ( According to laws man can divorce his wife any time but if woman demands it then she has to get court order) . Case lasts almost three weeks and honourable judge grant permission to Rimsha to divorced.

Lot of questions storms in mind about this verdiction like

Is sex only element between couples? Is sex has most important role to keep relationship strong? Is sex overruled our social values and beliefs?

Normally it is for men that is difficult for them to hold their wish for long time and a married man can't resist himself from sex but for women , she can survive without any sex more time , may be months or even years. A erotic or impassioned man can't hold its nerves longer but a woman can control over herself without any difficulty. That is God gifted ability in females and they are strong willingness creature.

Still question rounding in my mind that is Rimsha did good / bad to leave his husband & two kids only with one reason that her husband can't fulfill her desire of sex? I am leaving this question for you all .

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