Parental Attitude

After experiencing being a parent, all I know is the struggle and trying to be an example and to educate children to become good personalities. But somehow sometimes it's still difficult to put a position as a good parent, in the sense that it is still often set a bad example without realizing it by myself.

Indeed, the most difficult thing is to provide good education to children. Especially considering the current state of progress and the development of today's children, they are much bolder and their curiosity is greater than where I was when I was a child.

Responsibility is a definite burden and becomes something that cannot be denied when becoming a parent. It is not only a matter of a decent life, education, and nutritional intake. However, development and giving them the freedom to think and be creative is also something that needs attention.

Morals and characters do not escape being consumed every day so that they can remind them and hope to be good people for themselves and their environment in the future. Socializing and growing self-confidence is also a challenge that is often faced to be realized in a loved child.

Aspects of life in the attitude of parents to children become so concrete. Hard and soft in one. Straightforward and agile is a must. Fatigue and anger must be well coordinated. If not, it can be bad for the psychology of the child concerned later.

Parental limitations do exist. Especially with the words of humans who are not fully able to continue to know or have energy. Of course, there are limitations, but various things and ways are expected to reduce the level of the word lack as a parent word.

For the word love, of course, every parent must have a sense of love and affection for their child. And sometimes it exceeds what is in their hearts without ever being spoken and can be imagined with words. Both his efforts and his words are always engraved and spoken for the sake of a good future and does not want his child to suffer.

But life is still alive. Where life remains the same there is happiness and of course, there is sadness. So that they build themselves so that children can accept every condition as well as the main thing that is always used as initial training to be able to accept the circumstances or destiny they live in.

Bittersweet life they will surely feel. So we can't make them grow in sheer sweetness. Or vice versa. Because everything must still be balanced and accepted.

There is a good word, there must be a bad word. Introducing what is good and what is bad is also sometimes a dilemma when we explain the limitations of those who are still innocent of their childish nature. And patience is an important capital in terms of being a parent.

Patience and trying to give toughness is not easy to just create. Sometimes the level of human words must have a limit. But again, the attitude in responding must still be created without making a child burdened or hurt. It is normal for us to feel tired, sad, and worried. Because parents are human too.

Smiling and trying to give the best is the main key to give happiness to our loved ones. Selflessness and complaining are the basic values ​​of an obligation for the word happiness. Our happiness as parents is seeing our children can be happy and grow in happiness. The bittersweetness of life is certainly a part of life and cannot be denied. Responding with an attitude of maturity and showing being a good example to children is an easy thing that sometimes we forget without realizing it.

Good luck to all the parents out there, may happiness surround your family always.