How's life today?

How are you today?

A sentence that we first ask when someone meets. Then after that, there will be a short or long talk or story about our activities so far, about work, family, traffic jams, about someone we meet, or beautiful men and women who have caught our eyes. Contains about anything that fills the day thereafter we are no longer in the same time. Instantly we are in a threshold situation of understanding or not wanting to understand, trying hard to understand, accept and go through it casually or avoid it.

Everyone is busy. We're busy. And the changes are there.

We no longer make time for 'us'. We are just a couple wondering what each other is doing, with whom, and were at a distance that is not just the distance between the bedroom and the bathroom. Not because we've changed a lot or because we don't see each other often. With this in mind, we are again aware that we should not ask various questions to the other person we are talking to. We should realize that we are the night waiting for the morning and so on will be.

But, remember that we are the same human?

Humans with all limitations.

Humans with all the prejudices and anxiety that sometimes can't be controlled.

Humans are sometimes still lost with momentary emotions.

Intelligent humans say, "Yes, no, there is, no, and that's okay."

Yes, we are human. And sometimes, in-between times, someone will tell us, “We deserve to be hugged, not by those who don't care how they feel. We deserve to be held tight, not by those who just ignore us.”

From there, our defenses become indecisive, become weak, become hard-hearted. However, we firmly shake our heads. No, we are still in the right environment and the same world. It's just that the environment is far from us for now. However, the sense of the environment remains the same, it remains warm and protective. Realizing, the environment also has other activities. Not only to embrace, hug, or pull us closer to him but also the environment is now trying to realize a dream of all.

Are you busy! Are we too busy, that we don't realize that we still have a place as a 'family' to return to after wandering out there? Are you busy! Too busy that we don't realize that on every side of the human heart there are feelings that will feel for all our actions towards them.

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