Self respect

Every once in a while, we all need to pick ourselves up. You know, a reminder we are all amazing and at the end of the day, loving ourselves I a very crucial step forward in loving other people, loving lives, feeling happy and grateful.

Many people at some point in their lives have been in some difficult situation in live like: always feeling depressed while in bed and unable to put their soul at rest. They are like this because of their imbalance and negative feelings.
feelings like:

“I hate myself. I am worthless and can’t do anything good/right.”

“I can’t do it. It’s so complex for me”

“I can’t find solutions to my issues than to keep making it get worse.”

“If I do it again, I’ll do another bigger mistakes”

These storylines occur sometimes in ones life but once we have self-respect we don’t have to bother on what’s unnecessary. Although the solutions to this issues are never easy. It’s difficult to be loving oneself most especially when one has committed big mistakes in the past. There are many obstacles that comes in our way for just loving ourselves.

All of these feelings are natural occurrence that are bound to happen as we must go through hardship, negativity, doubts and moreover Failures. But the problem is most of us doesn’t understand that we must pass through this stage before we feel the sweetness, happiness, joy and positivities of this life. Above all self respect is what should comes first before any other things.

Self respect is what boost and develop individuals motives. It’s compulsory for everyone to develop self respect as it helps to carry out self confidence, prosper and personality. Respect is for all, not for the elderly ones alone but for individuals regardless their age. The occurrence of Self respects isn’t for positive feelings alone but also helps in succeeding negatively like disrespect, doubts, etc. We have to realize that difficult roads leads to beautiful destinations. Not once in a while but always.

HOW TO RESPECT YOURSELF

Stop looking for who is not looking for you: it’s sounds funny? Well it isn’t. Distance yourself from people who value you less or didn’t value you at all. Don’t look for them, let the looking for each other be proportional.

STOP SAYING MORE THAN NECESSARY

This one is also very crucial in self respect. You have to say less and focus on your goal not saying what is not necessary or partaking in unnecessary situations. So one has to talk less and let actions speaks louder than voice.

Think before you talk. 88% of how people value you is what comes from your mouth. So you have to be very watchful of what comes out from you.

BE AN ACHIEVER. GET BUSY WITH YOUR GOALS.

One has to be focused on his or her goals and not being focused on other peoples achievements. An achiever doesn’t have time of counting others success but focused on his goals.

RESPECT YOUR TIME

You have to respect your time, work with time, focus with time. Time doesn’t wait for anyone, once you miss a seconds you can never get it back so the right time is immediately and the second time is now.

DON’T STAY IN A RELATIONSHIP WHERE YOU DONT FEEL RESPECTED OR VALUE

Pls don’t stay in such relationships. crow, walk and run away from such relationships. Such relationships will always bring drainage, depression and other sorts of negativities. Think wise!

MONEY

Learn to spend your money on your self that when people will learn how to spend on you. Not to always spend your money on either your girlfriend of boyfriend. Though it’s boys who are fond of spending their salaries on girls. Be careful enough to spend don yourself bro.

BE SCARCE SOMETIMES

These also helps a lot in self respect. Scarcity of one face in a city where he has been known and disrespected will bring respect and positive feelings back to the person life as he visits there maybe ones or twice a year.

BE MORE GIVER THAN RECEIVER

Being a giver will also aid in getting more more respect from people. Receiving more than giving us a bad attitude that the community doesn’t support but try to give whenever you have the capability. Not only to gain respect but not to also lack as this saying goes “Givers never lack”.

DRESSING

Always look your best. Dress the way you should dressed. Dress cooperatively and perfectly. Dressing helps in self respect in very vital ways like teachers, lawyers, bankers, doctors, engineers and others without their dress no one will give them the respect they deserves.

Treat people exactly the way they deserve!

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