🖤 To The Singles. Note that the safest and smartest way to choose a good partner is Du'aa and not courtship. if truth be told, situations in marriages are totally different from that of courtship, so thinking a partner's behaviour in courtship will be the same in marriage is a deception. The only one that has knowledge of the partner who truly fits you is Allaah, so seek his guidance through Du'aa-ul Istikhaarah. Courtship is a time waster and leads to zina.

🖤 Don't unnecessarily delay marriage for fear of challenges that come after marriage. Note that these challenges will still show up even if you delayed your marriage almost to the time of your menopause, and do not delay marriages in search of a rich man, you never know; that poor brother proposing to you today may be the one holding your hands to Makkah (pilgrimage) tomorrow.

🖤 To The Married, marriage completes half of your Deen and shouldn't be handled with levity, it involves hard work and sacrifice.

🖤 Note that in marriages, conditions alternate just like day and night. You experience successes and failures, laughter and tears, peace and quarrels, abundance and scarcity and so on. Never feel dejected if sweet turns sour and never lose hope as the sour moments sooner turns sweet.

🖤 Strive to be a righteous wife and surprisingly you would become the precious and priceless asset a man can ever have, as in the saying of the Prophet (may Allaah's peace and blessings be upon him): The world is provision and the best provision in the world is a righteous woman. (Sahih Muslim 1467); and of the qualities of a righteous woman is obedience and striving to please her husband. yes! obedience to your husband, and this could be your easy ticket to jannah. An hadeeth of the Prophet (may Allaah's peace and blessings be upon him) says: When a woman observes the five daily prayers, fasts during Ramadan, preserves her chastity and obeys her husband, she will enter paradise from any of its gates she wishes. (At-Tirmidhi 3254). So, what's the gain in nagging?

🖤 Adorn yourself and appear sexy to your husband irrespective of your age or whether you've had five, six or more children. Nothing stops you from looking as charming as ever, even in your sixties. so, be creative everyday in beautifying yourself for your spouse as long as it is in the halaal way.

🖤 Finally, work hard in training your children, for this is the main responsibility of the mother. Do not jeopardize building your children for building a career, remember jobs and professions only appreciate youthful and energetic life while reducing some to pensioners at old age, but well trained pious children appreciate you at all ages and even pray for you after your death.

وصلى الله على محمد وعلى آله وسلم تسليما كثيرا