How to heal from a broken heart
If I advise, "Stop thinking about them," I may be terribly wrong because I am currently going through the same thing, though I am healing quickly!!
It's not easy to forget!
Humans are dependent on attachment, and attachment is what causes pain when it is broken!
Why am I recovering so quickly? Because my relationship ended in hatred (albeit I don't hate him anymore).
I was duped, and anytime I think about him, I believe he didn't deserve me!! I am deserving of someone who will repay my efforts on an equal footing.
Thus, there are several ways to mend a shattered heart:
• Maintain a laser-like focus on your objective! Concentrate on what you want to accomplish right now (professionally). Put in the effort!! You must achieve success.
• Grow as an individual!!You can develop yourself in a variety of ways. You can improve your abilities. You can acquire new knowledge. And believe me, when you look back on this time period, you will not be disappointed.
• Fall madly in love with yourself!!Self-love is critical. You should accept yourself and understand that your heart requires someone who can keep it peaceful and loving, not someone who will break it! Self-care, spending time with oneself, and getting to know oneself are essential components of growth!!
• Do not seek love!!Indeed, they say: "Do not seek love; love will find you in the most unexpected places!" Yes, instead of focusing on finding the perfect mate, focus on your connection with yourself. And one day, when your focus is shifted away from finding love, love will find you!
• Have fun!!There is no reason to feel guilty about being happy if you are broken! Indulge in activities that bring you joy. Distract yourself by going out.
• Hope!! Hope is the most powerful thing... just hope that everything works out for the best, which it will!!
I understand that all of this may appear challenging at first.
And it's acceptable to be upbeat and productive one day and depressed the next!
It's all part of the process.
Believe in the process; it may seem impossible at the moment, but it will feel better.
After you find people who have the same aura and vibe as you, just keep on growing and becoming the best version of yourself that you can be!
Believe me, time is valuable and nobody is going to inquire about the cause of your unsuccessful life!!
Be successful by concentrating on yourself.
Love is an integral part of life, and finding the right one will improve everything!
Simply try to breathe and enjoy.
Lastly, It's acceptable to miss that person, but learn to love yourself a little bit more!
I know this will really help someone from moving on. On the part that love will find me, I do believe in that before but I am already gone in the calendar and it seems no future love finds me lol