Marrying soon

July 20, 2022

Happy hump day readtizen!

While doing my chores, I am thinking what topic to write here in readcash but nothing is pooping on my mind, so what I did is read some articles first but still no ideas from those article is coming out., Then I open my notepad(dun nakasave mga link hihi) and I saw some links and some question and answer there, but I already answers some of it.,so I click the link and there gotcha, alot of questions to answer that will save me from todays article. If you want to try just click HERE

Without further Ados lets start.

It is really necessary to know everything from your partner’s previous relationships?

Yes and No, yes if he is willing to share it with you openly and you are willing to accept the truth also, and No coz I dont think it matters anymore coz its already past and you are together now, so why care about it anymore.

But I remember one time I am curious with my partners mobile phone coz he kept it very private with the password on it, and her siblings keep telling me that he has a girl who he loves so much but its keep secretly, so out of curiosity I tried opening his phone and I saw the message of the girl to her and I was like they still talk even he have his own family now. So I confront him and he gets mad at me coz he said the message was very long time he just saved it and they are not texting anymore. Then after that confrontation I dont know what he did and I am not asking anymore too, coz for me its not my business anymore(bahala sya kung makipagtxt pa din sya).

How do you feel when your partner has to leave you for some time because of work or study?

As I already share here before that my partner is not man with a big dreams, he is contented with what we are now, we ate 3x a day, or some times 4 or 5 times because of snacks,but when it comes to future, he is not after it, so if ever he will leave us for time because of work, Of course it will be fine for me coz its for our future, especially that we have our Baby now and she is growing and the expenses is getting bigger also, so if these happened I will be more happier coz finally he thinks of the future of our Baby rather than of himself only.

Do you think your partner’s friends and family like you?

I can attest that my partners family like me as I became a family friend first before we get into relationship,even the nephews and nieces are my friends before I meet my partner and we get into relationship, and they are thankful that I came coz finally somebody will look after thier siblings(majunda na din kasi haha).

But when it comes to my partners friend, I can't say that everyone from his friendlist like me, coz I am not a typical wife that nkikihalubilo sa kanila, especially if they are having a jamming session(inuman) I hate it that me and my partner are both drinking coz who will take care of Adrielle, and I also hate my partner when he gets drunk kasi nagiging makulit and mayabang and talkative so everytime he is with his friend me and Adrielle is walking out with her siblings or rather go home, but of course I smiled to them whenever I saw them kahit minsan nagsusungit ako, if they smiles back good but if not then theres no big deal. Thats life.

Have you thought about marrying your partner?

No, first and practical reason is financial, I know there are free wedding that LGUs are offering sometimes but I dont know we never talked about it too, we are contented with what our set up today, I know theres a difference if you are married but we are free to make our decisions and this is what makes us comfortable and Adrielle already used his surname.

I dont know if time will come that we will discuss about it,but as if this moment and being together for 4years we never discussed it.

==

I know we have different opinion in life especially when it comes to relationship and I respect your opinion with it, but I am willing to listen and read your comments regarding my opionions too, you can drop it on the comments section below. Thank you!