Kis behavior Acceptance

June 7, 2022

Since we are with my sisters house to look after thier son while she was sleeping and her husband is at work, I have with me my nephew, coz you know Adrielle is so clingy with me so sometime I carry her cousin she felt jealous, so I need someone to help me also.

My nephew is around 10 years old and he is willing to go with here coz he want to avoid his mom armalite mouth, yes thats how he describe his mom. Just like yesterday, his sister went here and makes some excuses and I ask them, why you want here and not stay with your house. They told me that thier Mom starts the day will bratatatattat as in umaga pa lng paggising ndi pa nag-aalmusal nagbubunganga na daw ito, so its one of the reason why they always want to stay of the house. Then I told them maybe you are all hard headed thats why, but they answer me, no Tita kahit wala pa kaming ginagawa sige ang bunganga nya, minsan nga gigising lang kami sa umaga armalite na agad sya and it will not end there, maghapon na sya nagbubunganga.

So I was telling them if your Mom is nag-uutos sa inyo follow immediately so she will keep her mouth shut, but they said kahit na Ta magbubunganga pa din un, tuloy tuloy na un, kahit konting pagkakamali namin walang tigil bibig nun. So I just said pagpasensyahan nyo na lng si Mama nyo maybe napapagod lang sya kasi andami nyo na ba naman taz buntis pa uli, kaya be sure na tinutulungan nyo palagi Mama nyo.

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After this conversation with them, I realized that how we discipline the kids really matters and reflect with thier behavior, I know we parents only wants the best for them but sometimes we are over reacting or over used our obligations as parents that we never notice they are so much affected with how we correct or discipline them.

Being too much nagger is really not a good practice as the kids are natuturete din, maybe we should always balance on how to discipline our kids, tho kahit ako sometimes I am too perfectionist kay Adrielle especially that all my attention is with her, but there are times that I am realizing na bata pa yan let her do what she wants, explore things around her but not always, talagang there are times that I am too much with her., So maybe its one of the reason why she is so clingy with me because I am very over protective to her.

As my conclusion to this article,we should put to balance everything, tho sometimes we forget it but its not too late to make a move and let the kids feel the freedom that they deserve and the proper discipline that they need.