Is showing affection, in-polite?

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2 years ago

August 29, 2022

Is it really in polite for a boy show or say his affection to a girl, or it depends upon the situation?

There's one incident happened the boy praise the girl, he said you are beautiful(ang ganda mo), then the girl feel nabastos sya, so she distance herself to the boy, but the boy is so persistent and followed the girl to her classroom, and the girl feels afraid so she lock her room and did not go out and chatted her other teachers for help.

The incident were reported to the principal, and the principal have no choice but to fired the utility/gardener(boy) even its her nephew because it will be a big issue if the teacher report to higher superiors because she did not make a move, so with close eyes, the principal informed her nephew that he fired from work because the school dont have any budget to pay him.

But you will ask why the reason of firing him is different?

Because the man is really not in the state of his mind, there are day that he is fine and there are days that he was out of this world,because he was into a depression for a long time,if I remember it right when the pandemic starts but even he undergo to a physchiatrist he did not improve because he did not drink his medicine coz he said he not is crazy(ndi daw sya baliw para uminom ng gamot). Sometimes you can him talking and laughing on his own and sometimes he kept telling that there are some people that will come and hurt him, but sometimes he is in normal, he mingle and talk with others pero lamang ung pagiging tulaley nya at smiling and talking alone.

Maybe if this man is not mentally sick, the teacher will be considerate to him for showing his affection and maybe just talk to him to keep distance to the teacher since they really the job because they have 5kids and the youngest was a new born only and they really struggling for everyday expenses but since he is not mentally fit they need to fired him for the safety of the teacher and maybe for the students also because we can never tell what he might gonna do if he is out of this world.

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Actually am lazy publishing today but since yesterday I already took off here so today I need to write because I dont want rusty to forget me, besides maybe tomorrow I can't publish again because we will be going to the city and I felt very tired if I went to the city for some errands and maybe I have tbis little girl with me tomorrow, coz I my partner have work tomorrow, no one will look after her.

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2 years ago

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Ako, I could accept a compliment ate. But not to the extent na susundan ako or what.

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2 years ago

Un nga kya natakot ang teacher kasi nakalock na pinto nya kinakatok pa sya, ndi na compliment un diba

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2 years ago

Aigoo ate, if mentally incapacitated si guy eh dapat tlga hnd na sya mag work lalao na eh nasa school. Order kasi din yan ate na dapat ung work lang ginagawa mo. I get it na may depression pero ung way kasi ng ginawa niya is hindi un normal so I think tama naman ung ginawa ng principal. At saka kamo ate mentally ill, what if hindi lang un ang gawin niya next time? Take note, ang mga ganitong tao na may sakit is kaya nilang manakit din lalo na hindi na maayos takbo ng isip nila. Maski ako ate eh magagalit ako at magsusumbong if sakin to nangyare.

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2 years ago

Well, it's not wrong to compliment someone, in my opinion, but his approach is inappropriate, especially since they're not that close. We girls sometimes misinterpret it as catcalling. Ang creepy kaya pag ganun. 😭

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2 years ago

Wawa nmn nong guy at wag sana tanggalin agad. Pwede nmn siguro e settle diba? Parang ang unfair nmn.

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2 years ago

I don't think it is wrong for a boy to show his affection to a girl but if it depends on the situation. Let's say if the girl is very young to the boy, it is not polite because such thing might lead to child abuse.

But they shouldn't have fired him but to warn him. How will be survive now?

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2 years ago

But he is married already, and he is following the girl on her room so the girl feel unsafe after

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2 years ago

Minsan sis dependi din daw sa physical apperance ng nagsabi Kapag pangit matic, maniac. Kapag pogi kilig-kilig.

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2 years ago

Eh kapag may asawa na sis at manganganak, maniac na🤣

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2 years ago

Tama lang na inalis nalang siya kasi as you said baka my magawa siyang hindi maganda pag umatake yung sakit niya

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2 years ago

Tsaka ung teacher natakot, its either ndi pumasok ang teacher which have big role sa school or sya na gardener

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2 years ago

good decision na inalis nalang siya

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2 years ago

I think everyone could have handle all of this better I mean that's not a good way to do things and in some ways the teacher was wrong.

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2 years ago

But there are times that he is not mentally fit, so maybe its the best way for them

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2 years ago

I think dapat nagpagaling muna ng tuluyan bago nag work kasi delikado din naman kung bigla nalang siyang sumpongin habang nasa work siya.

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2 years ago

Bale silang mag-asawa ang andun sis, nakaalalay si asawa, kya sya pinagwork dun kasi tlgang hirap din sa buhayeh, kaso ayun nga sinayang nya

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2 years ago

The teacher wasn't meant to handle it that way. The issue was to be solved between both parties and not inviting external people. I really pity the man for losing his job.

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2 years ago

I think maybe because he is not in good behaviour sometimes,so th best option is to fire him, but his wife will still work there

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2 years ago

The principal was not supposed to fire the boy. I see nothing wrong in telling someone how you feel or what you feel for them. The girl should better apologize to the boy.

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2 years ago

Even the boy follows you in your room and keep knocking? Maybe it will not be safe if he stil remains in the school

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2 years ago

Siguro magpagaling muna siya totally bago siya ipasok sa trabaho para walang taong matatakot sa kanya.

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2 years ago

Ndi nga sya sis umiinom ng gamot, may katigasan din ang ulo, pero ung wife nya namv is tuloy ang work dun

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2 years ago

If his not mentally fine sis, I think it's safe na wag na sya muna mag work, kasi baka mag create ng takot sa. Mga students ng school. Pero Sana matulungan syang gumaling.

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2 years ago

Naku sis pinagmot na un dati sa phsychiatrist kaso ndi nya iniinom ang gamot kasi ndi nga daw baliw,pero may time naman talga na ok sya kaso madalas tulala tlga sya

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2 years ago

Baka matindi ang depression nya or may emotional struggle din, mahirap talaga Lalo na pag na descriminate sila na may pinag daanan pa, mentally.

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2 years ago

I agree sis. Nalungkot ako kasi need yung job for daily expenses pero need talaga siya tanggalin for the safety of everyone. May nakita ako sa news na ganyan sis at talagang napahamak yung family niya. Ganun din siya minsan parang may problema siya sa pag iisip.

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2 years ago

Ung wife nya naman is tuloy ang work sa school as gardener sayang nga lng ung opportunity nya kasi wlang kahirap hirap na napunta sa kanila ung work

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2 years ago

Oo sis yan lang talaga nakakasad. Ang hirap pag ganun sis. Yung mga teachers inisip din nila para sa lahat tas pagdating naman sa kanya nakakalungkot lang.

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2 years ago