Gadget vs Relationship

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3 years ago

I have some questions for some of us here! In your opinion, how did the modern era/technology affects our relationships, with God, with our families, relatives and friends, and with our fellows. If you have to choose, which would you prefer, the old styles of living or the modern era now?

Many of you can relate with my topic, especially that we have different ages here, there are some who was born before wherein they experience the same as mine, and there are some who was born just the recent era that did not experience the old lifestyle.

OUR LIFESTYLE BEFORE

When we wake up, the very first thing we do is to pray a short prayer, then fix the bed and start preparing the breakfast and we ate together, then after, we can start playing and until 10-11am, then after playing rest and start taking a bath, then prepare for lunch and ate together as family, then after lunch and finish the chores, prepared for some afternoon nap, and then around 3pm we can start playing again until 5pm, then after playing we can start cleaning ourself then we will stay inside the house until the dinner is served and as usual we ate as family, then after the dinner we will watch the television while eating some chips, until each one fell asleep. This is our simple lifestyle before, when all you have is television and the games you play are all required your body energy.

ADVANTAGE

The advantage of the simple lifestyle we have before is, we are focus on our family, we never felt alone. We have more of our time with our families.

DISADVANTAGE

I dont think those times there's no major disadvantage of having a simple lifestyle because every one is living the same, so you dont have to compare yourself with anyone right?

OUR LIFESTYLE NOW

Nowadays, when we wake up the very first thing we are doing is looking for our phone right? Then when our parents calls out for breakfast, we just say later Ma/Pa you can eat ahead, I'll have mine after these and that. Then we get up in bed on whatever time we want, until the lunch time came and the same scenario will happened, and when the dinner is served again you will replied you will have yours later.

See we start distancing ourself with our families, but this situation is controlable if we have the authority and give them time frame when and what time they will used the gadgets, so they can disciplined thierselves, coz if we tolerate them, then you are the one who are pushing them away from your family.

But this gadgets have alot of advantage now, especially with our loved ones who are far away from us, and I will not elaborate it one by one coz most of us are using it now. Unlike before that only registered mail thru post office is the means of communication, and you lucky or you belong to rich family if you have a telephone in your house and you can used it overseas right?

But this gadgets have alot of disadvantage too, like what I stated above about distancing ourself with our families, then

  • instead of uttering a short prayer when we wake up, we are looking immediately for our phone, until we forget to pray,

  • we forget to play the traditional games that makes us sweat and enjoy the childhood life.

  • We are more focus on it that sometimes even our studies are left behind

  • And sometimes the worst thing is they start to adopt the things or videos that they watch or socmed and they get influenced by who they follow and watch.

This are only some of the disadvantage we are experiencing with the new generations who are more focused on gadgets, there are alot more. But as I said we can control this, especially we parents, coz we have the authority to discpline our kids.

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I myself sometimes so attached with my phone that I forgot that I have things and chores to do and also my baby to take care, so I manage my time that when she wakes up, I must focus on her and leave my phone alone, then I can used it again whenver we are in bed or she is playing inside.


These is my article for now, I just differentiate the lifestyle we have before and now, and what are the advantage and disadvantage of it, and this is purely my idea, so you are free to share some of your opinions on the comment section, so see you there! Thank to all!

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2021.11.04

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Nasa modern generation na kasi tayo so all gadgets is being part of everyday life lalo na ngayong nagka pandemic. But anlungkot lang kasi most of the kids di naenjoy yung mga naggawa naten before like maghabulan or maglaro ng mga outside games nung bata pa tayo.

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3 years ago

Yes, nakalimutan na nila mag-enjoy ng kamusmusan nila kasi more on gadgets na sila

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3 years ago

Sa true lang :(

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3 years ago

Dito sa amin sis kahit papano meron pa naman

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3 years ago

Gadgets have a big impact to the human being not like just before in our days. We can play outside along with the kids but now its really different. But not all kids have a gadgets.

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3 years ago

Yes sis, but the kids now are curious more on gadgets rather than the traditional games

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3 years ago

It's really true even for me it happens somei use first my phone when wake up ,but I'm trying to read first my daily bible verse , But sometimes a lock of time forget also

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3 years ago

Its ok sis, basta hanggat maari wag muna pagkagising rest muna ang mata

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3 years ago

Kaya nga sis

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3 years ago

Para din sa atin un sis

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3 years ago

That is a hard one. With gadgets we can keep in touch , but you are right family meals etc people don't talk now. Both have benefits and drawbacks

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3 years ago

Yes po, they have alot of benefits at the same time the disadvantage too

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3 years ago

Our lives have greatly been affected by the digital world but the obsession didn't just come. The benefit is just too to be ignored and it is best if we can create a balance between reality and the digital world.

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3 years ago

Very well said buddy! Discipline is the key

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3 years ago

I missed the days na di pa uso ang smart phone, yung simpleng phone na pang text or tawag lang hehe. Mas nakakapagfocus pa sa loved ones.

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3 years ago

Yes po, nung bata ako as in wla tlga, minsan kahit tv nga wla din😀

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3 years ago

Siguro nakasanayan ko na din na phone talaga yung inaatupag when I woke up.. But, unti-unti ko na ding babaguhin yun sis..Ang pangit nang epekto kasi sa'kin. Di ko maexplain masyado, basta pangit siya..hehehe..

Self-discipline lang din talaga..

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3 years ago

Yes sis, need mong baguhin kasi may side effect yan lalo na at bagong gising ka pa😀

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3 years ago

Phone is life sissy pero paggising ngpapasalamat nmn sa new day alhamdulillah. Kasama ko ang cp ko saan man ako or kht bc pwera lang kapag naliligo ako haha joke.

For me mas gusto ko ung noon na dipa kilala ang gadgets kasu ung bondung natin sa family and without disturbance . Ngaun kasi kahit nag uusap pa kau eh nakafucos parin sa gadgets

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3 years ago

Tama ka dyan sis, solid ung atensyon kapag bonding time ngaun very distracted na😀

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3 years ago

Ganyan ako,,every morning when I'm wake up,, phone ko talaga una kung mahawakan, kasi Ang oras Ang titingnan ko,,,but at the same time nag thankful aq kai God kasi ginising pah nia ako.

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3 years ago

If saglit lng kadi need mo makita oras ok lng, pero if magdotdot ka kaagad, oasma ang mata mo sis nun

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3 years ago

True talaga to sis, minsan pag nagising ako, una kong nahawakan yung phone para tingnan kung ano ng oras

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3 years ago

Ako sis no, rosary ang last touch ko at first touch ko sa umaga, before ganyan din ako, until narealize ko mali then u g nag-start kung baguhn

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3 years ago

Every gising ko now te di ako nahawak ng phone, appalipas muna ako ng 30mins tas saka hahawak ng cp. Di kase ako sanay kapag pagkagising phone agad, tas every nagigising ako diretso na agad kahit pray ng konte ganon

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3 years ago

Tama bhe ganyan din ako, nakakapasma pati ng mata ung cp agad

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3 years ago

I prefer the old. Because looking at my surroundings, many people are very addicted to social media. They forgot the bad and good behaviors. My younger cousins are learning different things that they should not do for example is eating their meals while holding their phones. Wearing revealing clothes and talking bad words to elders. Unlike before, we obey our parents, we just play outside and don't mind if our clothes will get dirty, et ceteras.

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3 years ago

Thats true sis, me too i prefer the old and simple life😘

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3 years ago