Where you are now is a choice. People sometimes would asks about the suffering they went through or they are experiencing. Why I am suffering ? Why me? First question we must asked to ourselves why I suffered this pain, this situation. No suffering without any cause or reason. It might be a consequence of what we just did or what we did in the past. We suffer because we choose to suffer. In fact, we can choose just to be happy. Everything is a choice. Its not a destiny.