Each people are doing their best to be appreciated. Especially eldest siblings. Here in the Philippines, most of Filipino eldest child were very well supported by their parents in terms of education and school activities because they believe that the only best thing that they can give their children was education. For all who wonders why? It is because some of Filipino parents not all were came from financial unstable status and the only thing they can afford to bequeath their children that will never be stolen was education. So that eldest child in the Philippines sets in their mind that they need to do their very best. Make their parents proud. And that urge them to be responsible in returning such kindness to their parents. Such helping them in supporting the other siblings who are still studying . And supporting their daily lives expenses. But sometimes some parents forget one thing, and that is the attitude of relying themselves and everything they needs to the one who got job. They thought that the eldest are doing good and that there is nothing struggle happening to her. That the eldest became the earner and that he is oblige to produce all the needs of his family. Children are being raised and educated that is their freedom . And parents are responsible for their well being. As to the children , it is their freewill decision whether they have the kind heart to share success and bring back the hard works of their parents. Children are not oblige but it is their willful hearts and love for their parents. Let us not put too much burden to the eldest children. Just spread love. 💕