Act like you don’t really need them.

Don’t give them the crap be too comfortable that’s how you win.

Make them feel yuh don’t real need nor care about them, even when you really do.

Act like losing them wouldn’t hurt there you practically notice the kind of friend you got.

You don’t have to let them have the chance of reading your heart.

In the past we expose all we got there by letting them see no value in us.

This above advice is very important in trying to build friends or relationship.

Once you try to follow up the above tips then surely you will securely build your guard and defense.