Although technological and organizational changes have made giving more advantageous, there’s
one feature of giving that’s more timeless: when we reflect on our guiding principles in life, many of
us are intuitively drawn to giving. Over the past three decades, the esteemed psychologist Shalom
Schwartz has studied the values and guiding principles that matter to people in different cultures
around the world. One of his studies surveyed reasonably representative samples of thousands of
adults in Australia, Chile, Finland, France, Germany, Israel, Malaysia, the Netherlands, South Africa,
Spain, Sweden, and the United States. He translated his survey into a dozen languages, and asked
respondents to rate the importance of different values. Here are a few examples:
List 1
Wealth (money, material possessions)
Power (dominance, control over others)
Pleasure (enjoying life)
Winning (doing better than others)
List 2
Helpfulness (working for the well-being of others)
Responsibility (being dependable)
Social justice (caring for the disadvantaged)
Compassion (responding to the needs of others)
Takers favor the values in List 1, whereas givers prioritize the values in List 2. Schwartz wanted
to know where most people would endorse giver values. Take a look back at the twelve countries
above. Where do the majority of people endorse giver values above taker values?
All of them. In all twelve countries, most people rate giving as their single most important value.
They report caring more about giving than about power, achievement, excitement, freedom, tradition,
conformity, security, and pleasure. In fact, this was true in more than seventy different countries
around the world. Giver values are the number-one guiding principle in life to most people in most
countries—from Argentina to Armenia, Belgium to Brazil, and Slovakia to Singapore. In the majority
of the world’s cultures, including that of the United States, the majority of people endorse giving as
their single most important guiding principle.
On some level, this comes as no surprise. As parents, we read our children books like The Giving
Tree and emphasize the importance of sharing and caring. But we tend to compartmentalize giving,
reserving a different set of values for the sphere of work. We may love Shel Silverstein for our kids,
but the popularity of books like Robert Greene’s The 48 Laws of Power—not to mention the
fascination of many business gurus with Sun Tzu’s The Art of War—suggests that we don’t see much
room for giver values in our professional lives.
As a result, even people who operate like givers at work are often afraid to admit it. In the
summer of 2011, I met a woman named Sherryann Plesse, an executive at a prestigious financial
services firm. Sherryann was clearly a giver: she spent countless hours mentoring junior colleagues
and volunteered to head up a women’s leadership initiative and a major charitable fund-raising
initiative at her firm. “My default is to give,” she says. “I’m not looking for quid pro quo; I’m looking
to make a difference and have an impact, and I focus on the people who can benefit from my help the
Although technological and organizational changes have made giving more advantageous, there’s one feature of giving that’s more timeless: when we reflect on our guiding principles in life, many of us are intuitively drawn to giving. Over the past three decades, the esteemed psychologist Shalom Schwartz has studied the values and guiding principles that matter to people in different cultures around the world. One of his studies surveyed reasonably representative samples of thousands of adults in Australia, Chile, Finland, France, Germany, Israel, Malaysia, the Netherlands, South Africa, Spain, Sweden, and the United States. He translated his survey into a dozen languages, and asked respondents to rate the importance of different values. Here are a few examples: List 1 Wealth (money, material possessions) Power (dominance, control over others) Pleasure (enjoying life) Winning (doing better than others) List 2 Helpfulness (working for the well-being of others) Responsibility (being dependable) Social justice (caring for the disadvantaged) Compassion (responding to the needs of others) Takers favor the values in List 1, whereas givers prioritize the values in List 2. Schwartz wanted to know where most people would endorse giver values. Take a look back at the twelve countries above. Where do the majority of people endorse giver values above taker values? All of them. In all twelve countries, most people rate giving as their single most important value. They report caring more about giving than about power, achievement, excitement, freedom, tradition, conformity, security, and pleasure. In fact, this was true in more than seventy different countries around the world. Giver values are the number-one guiding principle in life to most people in most countries—from Argentina to Armenia, Belgium to Brazil, and Slovakia to Singapore. In the majority of the world’s cultures, including that of the United States, the majority of people endorse giving as their single most important guiding principle. On some level, this comes as no surprise. As parents, we read our children books like The Giving Tree and emphasize the importance of sharing and caring. But we tend to compartmentalize giving, reserving a different set of values for the sphere of work. We may love Shel Silverstein for our kids, but the popularity of books like Robert Greene’s The 48 Laws of Power—not to mention the fascination of many business gurus with Sun Tzu’s The Art of War—suggests that we don’t see much room for giver values in our professional lives. As a result, even people who operate like givers at work are often afraid to admit it. In the summer of 2011, I met a woman named Sherryann Plesse, an executive at a prestigious financial services firm. Sherryann was clearly a giver: she spent countless hours mentoring junior colleagues and volunteered to head up a women’s leadership initiative and a major charitable fund-raising initiative at her firm. “My default is to give,” she says. “I’m not looking for quid pro quo; I’m looking to make a difference and have an impact, and I focus on the people who can benefit from my help the