I don't know who else that needed to hear this, but I strongly believe to reach a better goal in a relationship, communication must take the highest rate, it shouldn't be all about going out to have fun, making out with each other, and all that.. So tell me when last did you sit your partner down and talk to he/she on how your relationship is going and where its likely to end base on your your relationship situation right now, when last did you ask your partner of their intention and try to caution their mindset... I think for us all to achieve a relationship worth being proud of, you need to put all this in place!!!