Q: Can a psychic tell me if I'm going to find true love? Can a reading tell me if I've found my soulmate? Can a psychic help me get back with my boyfriend? And how accurate are relationship psychics, anyway?

Here are a few do's and dont's for psychic relationship readings.

Don't take what the intuitive says as LAW. There is always lots of gray in most psychic feelings, and there is no reader who is ever 100 percent right, 100 percent of the time. (and if they tell you they are, it's a good idea to go the other way.)

Avoid psychics who talk about casting spells, or casting curses, or who tell you they can perform magic. They can't... and while a good reading can do amazing things for your own insight, information and provide great guidance for what to do next, no legitimate clairvoyant can manipulate the outcome of events at a distance.

Do keep an open mind, but DON'T let your brains fall out! I've seen too many people make foolish mistakes when it comes to relationships, and this same thing extends to a reading to fix or salvage that relationship. If it feels too weird or wild, no matter what a psychic tells you to do, use your own common sense and intuitive wisdom to guide you.

Do set intentions for what you want to happen with your relationship, or your partner, or your unique situation before even getting on the phone with a relationship psychic. There is something very uniquely powerful, and maybe even completely unexplainable, and aligning your energy, and your intention around an idea that serves the collective good.

So if your relationship IS destined to be the "one" or your partner is in fact the person that can give you what you truly need? In my experience, as crazy as it may sound... setting this sort of intention, with passion and purity of spirit, opens up oceans of opportunity that might otherwise close without it.

Lastly, DO believe that everything in life happens for a reason, and that you can get great gifts from EVERY experience. (this includes relationships, even the ones that don't always end the way you want them to, or end when you want them to continue)

The truth is, everyone in your circle is there for a reason, and serves a divine purpose in the adventure that is your life. This includes every encounter... and if you can truly learn to love, and be grateful for everyone you meet, the universe will lead you in the direction of your destiny, I promise. (and this means for ALL of us, the unconditional love that we are all here to experience)