Concealed ?

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Research reveal that, keeping secrets hurts. keeping secrets is associated with lot of health issues which includes; depression, increase anxiety and lots. Although concealment of secret can seem exhaustive but we must be careful during our conversation not slip up.

There is this saying which goes, "No secret which are bound to pass beyond the two will be concealed" can you guess who these two are? the two! yeah, if you ask I'll point to my two lips. I can't remember whispering to someone's ear of a secret, which I'll entrust him/ her with there in, except I made him swear on an oath that secret will not be uncovered and will remain in a bottomless pit.

Keep the secret secrecy

Never reveal your secret to anyone unless you feel satisfied and think you can trust him, you may reveal your secrets to him. He patiently waits for a couple of months or more before revealing your secrets to others, when this happens your secret will begins to travel from person to person until it finally reaches you upon reaching you , you feel disheartening and broke down, You are the one at fault here since your secret should not have passed beyond your lips. Do not overburden people with what they cannot bear.

When one's chest is too restricted to contain his own secret, Then it is more restricted to be entrusted with a secret, many people has been tested in that regard and found it to be the same. The problem is you will never knew their true color until you reveal what you consider secret and the trust was breached by them, you will only consult them and they will attend to you as if they are the most secrecy, they will first give you an advice and later on reveal your secrets to others, then you loose the respect you have for them and they become the person you hate most.

Your ability to keep secret make you exceptional, you can be most, respected and valued person by your ability to keep secrets, having this ability gives reason for people to have trust in you and open up their hearts to you, to them you will be trustworthy and your level will be way high (I.e Your status will increase in their eyes ). Henceforth, Let train train ourselves on how to keep our own secrets and that of others.

Benefits

Having the ability to keep secret afford us all the following

  1. Self control

    have you ever ask yourself, how do i become better person by keeping secret? the is simple, if you think deeply and consider what potential your secret entails. Think about the absolute worst that could happen (to you, to the secret-conveyer, to the cosmos, etc.) if you tell this secret. And then assume that it will happen. This should be enough for you to be completely dissuaded that the short-term satisfaction of spilling the beans is definitely not worth the long-term damage. That, or you'll be considering the consequences for such a long time that the optimal moment for cat-out-of-the-bagging has passed, to this effect one should be most alert of what consequence and take charge.

  2. Avoid being in troubles

  3. Built trust and Confidence and lots.

it is said that; "The one who knows your secrets enslaves you"

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