When they don't trust you
Hello, read.cash friends! How are you all?
Our barangay is celebrating fiesta today and it was a bit noisy. Most of the people around are partying and my husband is on duty. His appointment has been renewed as a barangay volunteer.
A disco is being held in the barangay covered court and my husband begged me to text my message for him when I called. It was very noisy and he could not hear a thing.
So I am alone with the kids and they are already sleeping
So back to the title.
I was hurt earlier tonight because just when my husband left for duty, an old friend biboy came and asked if he could sleep in th house. He was a bit drunk and he could not make eit to go home. He still had to travel for almost an hour and he wanted to avoid accidents.
Then my mother called me asking about him. Anyway, biboy was my mother's borderin her boarding house for a few years and he and my husband became close. There was a time when he was staying at our house because he could ask my husband to cook for food but of course, he contributes too.
Now my mother was angry when she knew bi oy will be sleeping over. She sadi people will think this and that and of course, she is one of the people.
why are people so suspicious?
Actually, biboy to me is a brother and I don't think of any malice with him until my mother pointed it out
And to me, I felt it like my mother is already accusing me of the thing that I didn't do. You know that feeling?
But in the reality, I called my husband when biboy came and asked if he could sleep. Anyway, he sleeps on the living room and our room has a secure lock.
Why are we afraid of getting people offended?
So I called my husband to read my message and begged him to come over and ask bibo to sleep at my mother-in-law's hosue instead.
He came and did as I said an di was very thankful but I really can't deny that I was hurt about what people think of me. My mother sounded like I asked biboy to come over because my husband isn't around. I know my mom and I know what her tme is when she accuses.
They did it to protect my honor.
I know my mother did it to protect my honor and to protect mine and my husband's relationship. But the tone of her voice and the accusations? Nah, it hurts a lot.
I was even thinking grabe si mama, in ana gyud iyang tan aw naku. But people really think that way. But deep inside me, I am happy it happened because we don't know the future and other people's plans or intentions.
It might be biboy didn't have a bad intention but the neighbours might tell people the ther is only he and me that is adult in the house for a night.
Speaking of neighbors, I remembered something about the one that lived on teh house next to mine and I will share it on the next blog.
So in conclusion, I am happy that my mother got angry of me being too carefree to other people and I realized that I should not protect my family in any means even if it means rejecing friends.
This will be all for today, thank you so much.
I've been very loaded with work and street right now. See you in a bit
It could have been that she didn't trust biboy since he was drinking as well. I'm not saying your mom was right but if she doesn't know the other person involved she may worry about your safety. Not saying he is a bad drunk but alcohol can do bad justice