Men will always be men
You men here in read.cash how do you react to the title? Is it true?
I see men, adult men (90% of the population from where I work for are males) had their Facebook fed up with almost naked women and even signed up for TikTok and youtube to see those women who dance almost naked with seducing facial expressions. I doubt the men if they don't have physical responses about that.
In my younger years, young men that I befriended with does the same. They look at pretty girls even if they had their woman already.
Just tonight when I scanned his Facebook, I saw a message replying to a picture that she is very beautiful. I was jealous!
A wife is somebody who reacts easily to everything a man would do. Go to a party with friends? Wife nags. Bring home friends and drink on the House? Wife nags. Going home late for after-work drinking session? Wife nags. Ask money to buy something; Wife nags!
Better lie to them wives who always nag at things that you do. Agree?
YouTube, TikTok, Facebook, group chats in messenger, you name it. Porn videos are everywhere.
Just this Sunday, I found that my husband's phone has another Facebook account opened there. The messenger is full of porn videos from group chats and individuals that I don't know of.
I don't know if I should believe that it was not his dummy account just to watch porn. He said his niece who is bisexual borrowed his phone and logged the account there. All the subscriptions are about bi-sexual activities and I was really hoping it was not my husband's.
I have restricted him from letting his phone be borrowed. e lost his Facebook account more than once because his nephews and nieces are borrowing his phone and even my cousin. the result is that his data allocation ran out even a month from the date of subscription and HI had to load him again from my noise earnings. I was planning on saving money to buy something and I cannot do it if he constantly asks or loads.
I saw that account before and one of his nice said it was hers, they are four who can open the account actually. I deleted it from my husband's phone and last day it was logged in again.
Is still have doubts and I am not going to trust fully anymore.
Two weeks ago, my husband sold his harvested corn. Then came his brother who is asking to borrow money so that he can have his own house in his mother in laws place.
I asked him more than 5 times on different occasions "would you let him borrow?" he did not say a thing but when I saw a post from them that their house is done, I asked my husband again tonight " did you let them borrow?" he said no at first but said yes later. I was being fooled all these days pala. He said he forgot to tell to me but is Php4,000 pesos easy to forget to tell your wife where the money went?
No wonder he hides the total amount of his sales. I am hurt. I was the one supplying money for the expenses at first but then when. It was sold it won't go to me. Haha.
I posted about this last night, we had a fight but we make up. What can I do? the damage has been done and I cannot get the money back no matter how angry I would get.
I hope he won't do it again and lose all my patience and God knows what I would do.
Written last night when all of my emotions are still rushing in but I sure have exaggerated most of the parts.
Now I am asking men who read this article, have you done some of what I have mentioned above?
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