Men will always be men

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You men here in read.cash how do you react to the title? Is it true?

But what do men do?

They like pretty girls

  • I see men, adult men (90% of the population from where I work for are males) had their Facebook fed up with almost naked women and even signed up for TikTok and youtube to see those women who dance almost naked with seducing facial expressions. I doubt the men if they don't have physical responses about that.

  • In my younger years, young men that I befriended with does the same. They look at pretty girls even if they had their woman already.

  • Just tonight when I scanned his Facebook, I saw a message replying to a picture that she is very beautiful. I was jealous!

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They lie to their wife

  • A wife is somebody who reacts easily to everything a man would do. Go to a party with friends? Wife nags. Bring home friends and drink on the House? Wife nags. Going home late for after-work drinking session? Wife nags. Ask money to buy something; Wife nags!

  • Better lie to them wives who always nag at things that you do. Agree?

They watch porn secretly

  • YouTube, TikTok, Facebook, group chats in messenger, you name it. Porn videos are everywhere.

  • Just this Sunday, I found that my husband's phone has another Facebook account opened there. The messenger is full of porn videos from group chats and individuals that I don't know of.

  • I don't know if I should believe that it was not his dummy account just to watch porn. He said his niece who is bisexual borrowed his phone and logged the account there. All the subscriptions are about bi-sexual activities and I was really hoping it was not my husband's.

  • I have restricted him from letting his phone be borrowed. e lost his Facebook account more than once because his nephews and nieces are borrowing his phone and even my cousin. the result is that his data allocation ran out even a month from the date of subscription and HI had to load him again from my noise earnings. I was planning on saving money to buy something and I cannot do it if he constantly asks or loads.

I saw that account before and one of his nice said it was hers, they are four who can open the account actually. I deleted it from my husband's phone and last day it was logged in again.

  • Is still have doubts and I am not going to trust fully anymore.

They steal their own money just to get what they wanted.

Two weeks ago, my husband sold his harvested corn. Then came his brother who is asking to borrow money so that he can have his own house in his mother in laws place.

I asked him more than 5 times on different occasions "would you let him borrow?" he did not say a thing but when I saw a post from them that their house is done, I asked my husband again tonight " did you let them borrow?" he said no at first but said yes later. I was being fooled all these days pala. He said he forgot to tell to me but is Php4,000 pesos easy to forget to tell your wife where the money went?

No wonder he hides the total amount of his sales. I am hurt. I was the one supplying money for the expenses at first but then when. It was sold it won't go to me. Haha.

I posted about this last night, we had a fight but we make up. What can I do? the damage has been done and I cannot get the money back no matter how angry I would get.

I hope he won't do it again and lose all my patience and God knows what I would do.

Written last night when all of my emotions are still rushing in but I sure have exaggerated most of the parts.

Now I am asking men who read this article, have you done some of what I have mentioned above?

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kahibawo ka sis.. dili na sya maayo nga mag limod limod sa spouse.. try talking to your husband and ask him why he has to hide things... your goal as a couple is to communicate with each other and make sure you don't hide anything..

on the other hand, pornography is really a sin... in case siya jud to ang nag gamit.. he needs help in cutting the vice... be gracious and loving in approaching him and asking sis.. with prayer, he will overcome that.. i pray for your relationship and marriage!

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I logged out of the account and changed the password sis. siguro di na maoopen yun. kapag makit ako na namang maopne ay alam na. but I asked him nicely if I was not enough for him. he said that I was and swore he did not own the account. I wanted to believe him but I had built walls already.

sabi pa nya nakalimutan lang daw talaga sabihin sakin. honestly na guba nkng trust. hopin he will make up. Salamat sa prayers sis. every thing was perfect until these issues came

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1 year ago

Na labaw sis ,mao jud na ila gina ingon . Ang lalaki magpakakalalaki pwera lang sa maayo ha ,daghan laki ing ana makakita na ganig chix ,aguy wana ssiga ng mata bisan naay asawa.

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1 year ago

mao lagi sis. haays. nakapangutana lagi o sa akong bana kung in ana ba pod siya .

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1 year ago

OMG it seems like it is for a specific man sis. Is your husband on read?

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1 year ago

no, he is not on read sis.

no. its not fo rhim sis though may mga things dyan na nagawa nya. yung iba naman ay ggawa ng mga classmates ko noon ad sa mg aco workers ko. nappaaligiran kasi ako ng mga lalaki sis and di na sila nahihinag magpaka lalaki( not the lewd way ) yung mag jokes sila sa isa't isa. quiet lang kasi ako sa side kay adi nila ako pinapansin ang di din nman ako nag rereact

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1 year ago

Sa una sis, nakasulay ko aning about porn gud, kapila naku nasakpan, pero ge ulaw ulaw nakog taman, nga di jud maayo iyang gibuhat. Kay makapanapaw na gane ka bisan GA tan aw Lang, samot na ng sige, makainsulto man gud ng ing ana na. Prangkahan jud nakog estorya para di na mousab.

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1 year ago

naka prangka naman ko sis maong haskang sukua gyud nako last time. ingon sys dili gyud daw to iyaha. may lang gyud

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1 year ago

Tama sis men will always men. Yung mag lie sis. Dapat couples maging open sa isa't isa. Dapat sasabihin sa wife or husband yung mga bagay.

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1 year ago

Men will always be men My date also gives unnecessary excuses and always find a way to look at women, even when his with me

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1 year ago

I'm sorry to hear that. I hope he will realize how important you are or you'll find someone more deserving of your time and love

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