Let's jump over the obstacles and keep moving forward
Each of us plays the leading role in our own life. And this is necessary to put things in order, to set things right! But this is such a line that the fact that the world does not revolve around anyone should always remain in the corner of your heart and mind! This is the fine line where putting yourself at the center of your life and keeping your relationships in balance dance in harmony.
The number one rule of life is balance. When your scales have shifted a little, it is very difficult to recover. But as I said, this is a very fine line. Those who confuse modesty with being a loser cannot see what is really valuable because of the ego monster they grow inside themselves.
The people you thought you were on the road with may never see the fact that they are the ones who make the rules just because you disagree with them, and when the rules don't suit you and you leave the game, they may label you as half-hearted. Isn't it always like that? When you don't behave the way they want you to behave, you become a misfit. I call this injustice.
I think what is fair is that if you are really on a journey together, everyone's ideas should be collected and a common ground should be tried to be found. But if you don't have to live in a place where your opinions are not valued, it is a matter of respect for your personality and your principles not to stay even for a minute. On the contrary, maybe they see this as ego... Let them see!
You cannot be authentic if you care too much about what people say. I was born to be authentic! You don't have to accept anything, good or bad, that doesn't fit in your head or doesn't fit in your heart! For advice, take the part that suits you and ignore the rest! Just as constructive criticism helps you to improve and move forward, negative and destructive criticism is bound to drag you down as long as you obsess over it or worry about it!
In love, at work, in friendship, in whatever relationship you have, you don't have to accept anything that you don't feel comfortable with. Mistakes happen, of course. We all make mistakes, we try to correct them or they try. Time comes, years pass, the issues discussed remain simple, hanging in a corner in the past. But the most important thing is to leave everything to time, calmly, without losing your respect, and to know how to move away from situations you don't like with your free will.
Don't we have such friendships and relationships around us? Isn't the real madness the tendency not to speak out against a situation you don't like, but to continue in sick, dependent relationships? With time passing so fast, what is the purpose of being alive, other than to chase our own dreams?
When we are already going through such difficult times socio-economically, with thousands of obstacles in front of us, whatever will trip us up on the way to our dreams, just step back, jump over it and move on! Sometimes you have to take a step back before you can jump.
For each step towards your dreams, take a deep breath, focus only on today and jump calmly. See how the giant inside you awakens! The source of this power burns only in your heart!
Step by step to your dreams...
Just take it slow and we will end up to the end..