whenever we heared our family members,relatives,going out of country to work,first come in our mind,seriously how lucky are they to be able to go out of country to work and experience a new life outside their comfort zone.they will see different places,they will meet different people,other nationalities,eat different foods etc.. etc,how good is it to ours right!
But have we ever think the other side of the story?have we asked them how they feel being far away to their families and friends?have we asked them,how is the feeling working with different people?different nationalities?Are they treated well?Did they like the taste of the foods in the country they were worked in?Is the place safe to go outside? or all we are just thingking is the good side of the story,the good salary,the exciting experience,all the lies behind the pictures we see in the internet.in facebook,in instagram.Well to tell you honestly behind all of that are the actually opposite of what we planted in our mind.
We are actually fed with our greediness in good life.We thought when you work abroad and you have a good passive income that will make your life comfortable.it will make you happy.when actually the moment when you ready your luggage and put your belongings inside that bag and when you read your ticket the day of the flight,the flight number your heart is aching for emptiness.
The time has come and you will need to leave again.the loneliness of being far away with your love once in so much time.again,you will miss all the special occations that will come,another more years you will be absent and again you will miss the comfort of your home,the foods that is made specially for you.your friends who everyday calling you,the gatherings that you suppost to be with them.
Again,you will ride in a plane going to the strange land.again you will have to deal everyday of your life with sadness and emptiness.
Again you will have to go places to take good fake pictures to post on social media,so the people who know you thought you were good at what you were doing,when its all infact fake why?because after an hour of happiness is a day of loneliness.
I can say this! Yes i can.because its what happened to me.When I work abroad.