You all must have heard about the Japanese three face proverb according to it we all have three faces, this Japanese proverb proves that neither in today's world nor either we could openly show our true face to everyone. We, humans, are constantly running this race to come first, to win. The world is filled with speeches, lectures and peoples constantly urging us all to br true in every aspect but sadly no one will accept the actual reality of the fact that no one is truly themselves because being slightly diplomatic will get us places, but we should not be fake, we should try to be real in every aspect.

But it is unfortunate truth about us somehow that everyone among us are g=hiding something from alias anybody, from the world, from our loved ones, sometimes we ourselves don't know who we are? We present ourselves differently to the different audience , I think it depends on how close we are to somebody.

Our First Face:

The first face is the face that we shoe to the outside world, i.e diplomatic and perfect somehow. It is the little percent of our true self, our true face. We cannot share the actual thoughts that run in our minds, as we have many fears i.e fear being judged and many other fears we think of all the time "what will the people say?" it is the most common fear among our society, these fears haunt us all the time. We think we will be mocked , it takes alot of courage to present our real face to everyone.

Our Second Face:

This is the face that we show to the to our close friends. Each face reveals a different way our character interact with and reveal ourselves. We share much more about us with our loved ones. Our friends and family knows much more about our nature and a greater percentage of our real face. Friends and family are the most precious gift if we feel alone we can share our loneliness with them the things we are cannot share with anyone at that time they are with us.

Our Third Face:

The third face is the face we never show to everyone, only we know about our this face. As you can say when we are alone there are many things, many things that we that we only share with ourselves. Lying on a bed in dark room, being with nature somehow help us to discover our true self .we all should spent sometime with us, being alone we can learn many things we are able to discover our abilities and faults so we know our real face that we are unable to show to the others.

My views/ My character:

As much as i know my self I have two faces the one I show to the world and the other that my family, friends and I know. My family and close friends know my real face that i know about myself ,my face is same for my close friends, my family relatives .and if I talk about the other peoples the outside world I am unable to reveal myself completely honestly speaking I too have fear of what will peoples say, how will someone judge me , how will someone think about me but I am working on myself I am trying to make myself a better person.

PRACTICE:

Today I want you to take 15 minutes and write a scene exploring one of these faces specifically the one you have least written. Explore your character when you are public( 1st face), when you are with family and friends(2nd face), when you are alone( 3rd face) . What your character reveals might surprise you.

Questions that arise in my mind while thinking about all this are: How well do i know my character?, how well do peoples around me know my character?

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