Winter Cleaning of Life
For a long time, I realized that there are things that consume my time, my energy, my life force. I would like to give a simple definition by calling these distractions.
Distractions can be anything physical, mental, emotional, that diverts our minds and emotions from our primary goal. They can be virtual or real, physical or mental. It can be animate or inanimate objects. For this reason, it is sometimes not easy to detect them. Especially if it has been an active part of our lives for a long time...
The thing is, you feel like you have to deal with someone all the time, and you feel like you're running out of time for that person.
You feel like your energy is drained every time someone engages you in dialogue. That's why you don't want to do anything.
It could also be what you've been through in the past that is constantly pulling you to that moment in the past.
Sometimes, it can be our own thoughts or the thoughts of others that we adopt as our own.
Every one of us has 24 hours a day, regardless of age, gender or country. Everything we spend these 24 hours on shapes the present and therefore the future and our entire life.
When we spend today gambling, what we will most likely have in the future is huge debts.
One second is too much to think about a person who doesn't value us.
Every time we give a chance to someone who hurt us, we give them the opportunity to repeat it. Of course, it may be good to give this chance to someone who deserves a second chance, but I think it is better not to give this chance to someone who does not fully trust us.
Unless we learn to really devote our time to things, we're wasting our time. Yes, this is a lesson, of course. But at the end of the day, we need to learn what we should devote our time to. The lesson we must learn is not to repeat the same mistakes over and over.
That's why I decided to permanently close my social media accounts. I closed my personal Instagram account today. I also closed my Twitter account, where I shared crazy content on the website.
You ask why? While there is no single logical reason not to close these accounts, there are many reasons to close and delete them completely.
I haven't used Facebook for years anymore. I haven't used whatsapp for a few years. Now I have decided not to use Instagram and Twitter.
Now I only have Signal, Threema, Telegram, read.cash and noise.cash accounts. I will delete my Telegram account as well.
There are still a few other sites and apps that I'm considering closing and deleting.
I think the winter period will pass with cleaning.
While reading the title I remember the song "winter world of love" I was even humming. Well the only social.media I had is facebook. Though I seldom open because I don't want to absorb negativities