We must focus on our own lives, find our own goals and work towards achieving them.
Our life is not long enough to look for the faults of others. But there is a consciousness whose life seeks to devalue others by seeking their faults. In fact, this is an energy caught between consciousness and unconsciousness. A consciousness structure that tries to survive by consuming the power of others because it cannot find its own strength. This is a consciousness trap that we fall into from time to time without realizing it.
However, our priority should be to find our own power, our light, and increase it. People are free to make mistakes that complicate their own lives. This is everyone's own process. This is acceptable until it reaches the point of harming others. However, if the person has started to harm not only himself but also others, it is necessary to put a stop to it.
Learning effective communication is important for all of us. In this way, we can strive to truly understand each other. In this way, we can more easily free ourselves from the aggressive way of speaking.
Today's society lives in an age where information is important. Increasing our knowledge also contributes to raising our awareness. In this way, we can see many things from a wider window and our viewpoint becomes clearer.
The clearer our minds and the broader our perspectives, the more information we can master. People are afraid of things that they do not understand and are not sure of the result. Knowledge can enlighten our minds and free us from unnecessary fears.
When we become open to understanding each other, learning from each other and teaching each other, we can open the windows of a wider perspective both for ourselves and for others.
However, when we start blaming and judging others for everything we do not understand, when we try to dictate our point of view to others even if it is not based on any logic, it is inevitable that we will experience conflict.
Therefore, we must first try to understand the point of view of the people in front of us. If we don't understand, we can ask questions to learn more. In this way, it becomes possible for us to access more information. At the same time, we avoid causing unnecessary conflicts and fights. This makes it easier for us to become a society and humanity that understands and respects each other.
Before we judge, we must learn to listen and make an effort to understand each other. In this way, we have the opportunity to eliminate the flaws in both perspectives.
We should be able to develop the habit of asking questions without judging, instead of going directly to judgment based on our own point of view on a subject we do not understand. But our problems must be to understand the point of view that we do not understand. Judgmental, fault-seeking questions are also of no use to anyone. We should not try to judge, we should try to learn.
A conversation with a person through quality and effective ways of communication can help us learn things from each other that we cannot learn from hundreds of books.
Books should develop us, help us understand others better, enable us to express ourselves better, and make our minds clear and open to new information. Books that do the opposite serve as brainwashing. Books that make us prejudiced against others, intolerant of new ideas, judgmental and lack of empathy can be harmful rather than helpful.
There is no rule that everything in book form will be useful. The most effective lies are those that hide among the truth.
We must be open to learning, whether from books, the Internet, or people, but beware of the pitfalls of judgment and blame.
We should be especially wary of anything that is presented as absolute truths. Because everything is about perspective and not absolute facts.
2+2 does not always result in 4. There are no numbers 3 and 4 in the Ternary Number System. The result of 2+2 is 11 according to the Ternary Number System.
Even positive sciences change and evolve over time. Even if science is based on logic, a new theory can change everything.
So every point of view can bring us one step closer to the truth. Therefore, it would be more beneficial to try to learn and understand instead of being afraid and attacking instead of judging immediately and producing results according to our own point of view. Perhaps the intersection of both perspectives is closer to the truth.
Irrational aggression stops development. In the information age, it would be in the best interest of all of us to stop going on a Witch Hunt.
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