Take a deep breath in, its okay, breath out, its okay.... Do it again. All you need is a solution. How do you get the solution should be the concern, it could come in various form, might just be in a person, might just be in a way to go by. So all you need is the connectivity to either the person or the way, stay true and hopeful, life's journey should be enjoyed and enjoyed intentionally. It takes a step to effect a change, once you've taken the right step the next result is joy all the way. So its the right step you need to take, find out the right step, the worries doesn't find the right step, your sober mind is what finds the right step. So you need your sanity, try to maintain it.
What's the need for stressing over issues, when in actuality there's little or nothing you can do to better the event, stressing in life that is relatively short and each moment enjoyed is quite unreasonable. There is a wish for everyone and yes, not all situation would go in perfect plan, what then should be done? Get up and device a plan, be silent and strategic, this is a better option. The aim is for the pain to leave, you've got to treat the part in order to ease the pain, you mere looking at the injury doesn't help matters, same goes to stressing, stressing is never a solution, except you seek for peoples attention via facial expression, but even if so,then you aren't really stressing, you are devising a plan to get help. Focus on the remedy than the issue.
Words are powerful, a constant reminder that all will be fine, goes a long way to creating a world of ease around you. This people may argue with, but the spiritualist have been operating with this aura and it has been effective for them, a popular quotes says that life doesn't give you what you desire, rather what you demand, its a task to get what we truly desire and it won't come by worrying and stressing, rather it comes by a constructive and strategic demand, one has got to be intentional about what he or she wants and have the attitude of a goal getting, this way life also play its part by giving in to the demands.
The emerging of the right person also could be the end of the struggle for you. The only thing with this case is the fact that you don't know who truly is the right person, you can only hope or choose if you're between options. The ways situations turns around are very Amazing and your case isn't different, your case can be changed to. Worries doesn't solve much, the sobriety of your mind is the main key factor of getting solution. So think and think it out. Take a deep breath in, say its OK, breath out say again its OK. Now start thinking.
Humans have a habit of dwelling in the thought of the problem, rather than in the thought of the solution while still hoping for a solution, you can wonder when then would the change come about. We must strive for the life we most desire, it doesn't come by pondering rather from matured mindset of finding solution. Put the brain to work and wipe those tears. God has blessed the human mind to proffer solution, in the worst of events, we take after his likeness in calling forth light out of total darkness.
We should do similar. Everything is going to be OK. We must be live happily. We have got to be intentional about pursuing our happiness, a day spent in sadness and undue stress is a wasted day. As each day we get older and very soon we would have but mostly our memory to keep us company, then the question is, have you truly lived how you wanted, do your memory make you smile, or are you stressed out mostly by life's hurdles. Say no to unwanted stress and be intentional in your pursuit for joy, money and peace of mind.