Infatuation is not love

I am wondering what is a reason of this. if we are true lovers why do we change our mind so fast? why the feeling of infatuation is so strong that it causes to break the relationship after some weeks or month. I don't think we can say the person who we love is bad or not good enough for us due to the feelings changing.

Infatuation is not love and never will it. in the entire stage of infatuation you still have the ability and freedom to leave at any moment but with love there is a feeling of obligation to stay with someone. when two people fall in love there is a sense of commitment and loyalty that forms.

People get infatuated. They think they are in love with the person. After some time they realize that they were wrong. Infatuation is not love. Even if it is, it will not last long.

The movie called "Infatuation", a movie by Yue Jiang. This movie deals with the topic of infatuation and how it is different from love.

According to research, people who fall in love very fast may be more likely attracted to partners who give them good feelings, but over time they are more likely to feel bad and have negative thoughts about those same partners.

Because the feeling of infatuation ends quickly, the audience in this case feels that the boy will not get hurt so badly if he does not love the girl anymore.

We are taught that true love lasts a lifetime and we will always be together no matter what happens. Although there are many cases when people stay together for a long time, this is not always the case.

Even if you believe in true love, infatuation is not love and should not be confused as such.

I've seen it happen so many times and I have been part of it. You see someone and the infatuation kicks in, the first few weeks or so, you feel like you've found your missing piece. You can't get enough of each other, you think about the other all the time, you want to do things just because they are in your presence, you go out of your way to impress him/her , so on and so forth.. eventually, you loose interest for one or both parts but still you stick around because it wasn't infatuation but now love.

It's like people today confuse infatuation with love. Infatuation is a short lived feeling of attraction towards another person. It is a condition that involves uncritical and shallow feelings that appear to have a physiological basis. Now, if you really loved someone, you wouldn't need to show off in public by doing things just to impress him/her.

You don't want to do things to make them happy because you truly care if they are happy not just because you want your picture taken doing it. The moment infatuation turns into love, is when you start being concerned about the other in your life more than yourself. Infatuation is nice but its not love.

I want to believe I made justice to the title of the article, thanks for reading. Till I write again, I remain the anonymous writer @tifee