Beauty is so captivating, Charming can entice your senses, Caring can make you feel you've got it all, oh when he's famous you feel on top of the world, Wealthy then you feel you can bear any excesses moreover he gives you anything you want, he apologizes so you are mandated to forgive every single time. There are many things I've heard ladies say as an excuse to remain in an abusive relationship. They no longer value their self with same velocity as while they we been chased after, now they can take any degrading occurrence and blame it on love. Its crazy guys.
While you're still single you care for nothing more than you cared for yourself, looking beautiful, going to spa, getting your dream job, seeing out with friends all jesting and laughing, you had an undeniable glow, just when you thought someone has come around to add current to your glow, so you can shine brighter, it ends up becoming the opposite, unveiling his true nature, you have experienced anger, hate, deep jealously, which has now graduated to being dictated to, which has now grown to being slapped and abused. Now all your smiles are hidden far from sight, a young girl now appearing older from continuous frowns and anger. My dear, my question is what are you still enduring for?
Take this simple fact, you are yet living if your everyday life is now void of joy. Oh are you shocked, allow me explain to you that death isn't the greatest loss of life, when life dies inside of you while yet living is a great loss also. You should have heard that life is too short maybe yet you aren't aware of how true that statement is,sometimes not too far from memory you were way younger than your current, similar sometimes not going to be too far to remember you'll be aged, each passing day is too precious to waste dwelling in unhappiness. My ladies run, my men run away also from unhealthy relationship.
Men also experiences an abusive relationship, abusive doesn't only come via fist, it can very much be the frustrating attitude of your spouse, as much as possible we should love with our heart and simultaneously guard the love with the realities through our senses. Think with your head, see the signs, study the signals, if its not looking green please cut it off, before you get arrested without bail. You could have been lucky for a long time but how long would you keep depending on luck, why not just have rest of mind.
The married people are not exempted, they would likely say I'm enduring because of my kids, this is good no doubt but only on the case that because of that same kids the abuses doesn't continue. Believe me if the abuses continues between the couples you might end up staining the future of those kids rather than help build them well. A child constantly seeing his mother get beaten would either grow to hate the act or more probably grow to have little regard for the opposite sex, its as simple as that, every kid deserves to grow in love and care, even if its better given from just one parent rather than being together and the child perspective to how family should run is jeopardized.
Life doesn't go less by being single, there's no book that says single people are miserable, if the relationship so desired is turning out to be a doom, its best you find solace in yourself, moreover you were you before becoming we and you were doing just fine. You are more important to take any degrading stuff. Live life happily, love with your heart and think with your head. Just know that over 30,000 of the worlds death are caused by partners who kill their spouses. You can still make a decision now. Flee unhealthy relationship.
Beauty is so captivating, Charming can entice your senses, Caring can make you feel you've got it all, oh when he's famous you feel on top of the world, Wealthy then you feel you can bear any excesses moreover he gives you anything you want, he apologizes so you are mandated to forgive every single time. There are many things I've heard ladies say as an excuse to remain in an abusive relationship. They no longer value their self with same velocity as while they we been chased after, now they can take any degrading occurrence and blame it on love. Its crazy guys.
While you're still single you care for nothing more than you cared for yourself, looking beautiful, going to spa, getting your dream job, seeing out with friends all jesting and laughing, you had an undeniable glow, just when you thought someone has come around to add current to your glow, so you can shine brighter, it ends up becoming the opposite, unveiling his true nature, you have experienced anger, hate, deep jealously, which has now graduated to being dictated to, which has now grown to being slapped and abused. Now all your smiles are hidden far from sight, a young girl now appearing older from continuous frowns and anger. My dear, my question is what are you still enduring for?
Take this simple fact, you are yet living if your everyday life is now void of joy. Oh are you shocked, allow me explain to you that death isn't the greatest loss of life, when life dies inside of you while yet living is a great loss also. You should have heard that life is too short maybe yet you aren't aware of how true that statement is,sometimes not too far from memory you were way younger than your current, similar sometimes not going to be too far to remember you'll be aged, each passing day is too precious to waste dwelling in unhappiness. My ladies run, my men run away also from unhealthy relationship.
Men also experiences an abusive relationship, abusive doesn't only come via fist, it can very much be the frustrating attitude of your spouse, as much as possible we should love with our heart and simultaneously guard the love with the realities through our senses. Think with your head, see the signs, study the signals, if its not looking green please cut it off, before you get arrested without bail. You could have been lucky for a long time but how long would you keep depending on luck, why not just have rest of mind.
The married people are not exempted, they would likely say I'm enduring because of my kids, this is good no doubt but only on the case that because of that same kids the abuses doesn't continue. Believe me if the abuses continues between the couples you might end up staining the future of those kids rather than help build them well. A child constantly seeing his mother get beaten would either grow to hate the act or more probably grow to have little regard for the opposite sex, its as simple as that, every kid deserves to grow in love and care, even if its better given from just one parent rather than being together and the child perspective to how family should run is jeopardized.
Life doesn't go less by being single, there's no book that says single people are miserable, if the relationship so desired is turning out to be a doom, its best you find solace in yourself, moreover you were you before becoming we and you were doing just fine. You are more important to take any degrading stuff. Live life happily, love with your heart and think with your head. Just know that over 30,000 of the worlds death are caused by partners who kill their spouses. You can still make a decision now. Flee unhealthy relationship.