Every human being in the world loves to hear their own praise. Praise is something that can pave the way for a person to move forward in life.
No matter what kind of work we are involved in, we all want people to appreciate our work a little bit. When you write, tell a truth? Then if one and the other person appreciates that writing, don't you think that I will write the next writing more beautifully?
But sadly we do badd kiptemi to appreciate people. We are actually afraid to praise someone, we all know that if someone can be praised continuously, he will go a long way. And this is our problem. We always calculate the profit and loss, we think it in our subconscious mind, what is my profit by praising someone else? Will it be of any use to me?
Here I will say, yes of course we also benefit a lot from praising others. No matter what else, our mentality is beautiful. And the one whose mentality is beautiful goes far in life.
I think, that very well he should be praised more than he should be praised that he is a little behind. Those who are behind in this will get back the morale to move forward.
Let's learn more about the magic of praise.
Shakespeare said: "If someone has no virtue, tell him what virtue he has."
He who has no virtue, if he can be praised in any matter, virtue, then he will try his best to keep that reputation alive.
"Ordinary people can be driven easily if you admire one of his qualities," said Samuel Vauclain, president of Baldwin Motor Company.
Georgette Sheblask wrote the story of the strange transformation of a little Belgian girl in his book Souvenirs My Life with Metallic.
The narration of the story is as follows: -
A maid from a nearby hotel used to bring me food every day. Everyone called her 'Egg Dhowa Mary' because she started her livelihood by washing eggs.
The girl has a strange kind of tara eyes and legs. The poor girl is disabled in many ways.
One day when he came with food for me, I said straight to him, 'Mary, you don't know how many qualities you have.'
With this one word, the girl could not control her emotions, she was overwhelmed with joy. He ran to his hotel and told everyone about it, and since then everyone has spoken respectfully to him.
But the strangest change was in him. This time he began to take care of his work and himself. And within a few days, radiant youth blossomed in his body. He can't recognize himself just by looking at himself now
Due to his own self-confidence, this time his marriage with the nephew of the owner of the hotel was right. Because he made himself that way. For so long he had considered himself badly neglected. But he was able to change his mind with that one word.
Georgette Sheblask has made 'Egg Washing Mary' a way to live with dignity - and that sense of respect has changed her life.
But every human being is like that. When we hear the praise of others, we feel a strange joy, excitement, love in our minds, so we love to hear the praise.
Thanks.
Stay well.
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