Children love to imitate. They learn from adults. But by looking at the behavior of the child, it is understood how the adults of the family behave. Children also learn when they see a beautiful relationship between parents. In the same way, seeing a quarrel between two people has an effect on the child.
It is very common for husband and wife to have quarrels. But the results may not always be good. Understanding among themselves should be done behind the child's back. Because if they treat each other rudely, the child will grow up seeing the same. He too will become accustomed to being rude to others. If there is unrest inside the parents, its effect will be felt in the life of the child. Many children's childhoods are ruined due to the inner turmoil of the parents. So it is important to follow certain things in front of the child.
Both parents are equally important to any child. And so make sure you don't have to pay for any mistakes. Many children suffer from depression when their parents marital unrest.
Everyday quarrels, shouting, criticism, satire of parents have different effects on the minds of children. They insist unnecessarily. Many times he gets angry a little. Screaming and talking, sometimes it is very easy to get scared. When you see these symptoms in a child, be more careful about your relationship.
Confidence is not built if the parent-child relationship is not good. That leads to anxiety. They often have difficulty adapting to the school environment.
When parental relationships are not normal, children suffer from extreme insecurity. Feeling very helpless. The child, tired of seeing the quarrel, does not even know who he will take the side of. For these reasons, he has been suffering from indecision since childhood. This can make it difficult for him to make decisions in the future.
Children learn the first lessons of its use from their parents. Disrespect for each other, disregard for the opinions of others, all this will have an impact on his personal life in the future when he grows up. And this bitterness increases the distance with the parents.
No matter how angry you are when you have a fight, control yourself by looking at your child's face. Calm yourself first, without expecting restraint from others. If one is calm, the quarrel will end.
Husband and wife talk less due to work pressure, not giving time to each other or lack of understanding etc. And because of this the unrest between the two continues to grow. So give each other time to keep their relationship good.
