All Saints/Souls Day have passed by but still my wife and I were able to visit the graveyard of our first baby last Sunday. He died last March 27, 2019 because of miscarriage. Yes we admit, we were busy with our work that time like preparing our school forms and with the continuous school activities, my wife got stressed and overfatigue. We were able to visit her OB couple of days because spotting started to appear before she got her miscarriage but the OB did not advised her to take a bed rest.
Visiting the graveyard of our loved ones not just during All Souls Day is one of the traditions we continue to practice and preserved. We bring flowers and light candles in cemetery in loving memory and remembrance of our dear loved ones who passed away. Some offer prayers and even some bring foods and place them in the graveyard. Though they are dead already but it is a practice that even if they are not here on earth we still loved them and remember their life when they were alive. I thank God for giving us the time to visit our first baby. He was just 4 months old when we loss him. The baby was actually a boy as we confirmed his gender. Body parts were already formed and in shaped and I actually had a picture of him but for his sake i will just keep it personal. Anyway all things happened for a reason because God is always in control. After 6 months, my wife conceived again and our baby daughter is 4 months old now. God took people away but He will replace it also something special. Thanks to Him.
Only a victim can understand how difficult and frustrating it is to miscarry a child,