Badmouthing Stinks
*Just try to* ***imagine****:*
You are being badmouthed.
By someone.
Either upfront or behind your back.
And you realized, *this actually happened to you personally.*
I think even a nice person would feel their blood boil once this happens to them.
Badmouthing is an act of **saying bad things about a person**, a thing or a situation. Criticizing is fine. It's actually helpful to the one you're criticizing but once it gets out of hand and it becomes a way to **insult or degrade**, you have to **STOP** there.
You see, doing this kind of thing is a way of being disloyal. You act nice, thoughtful and concerned but without that person, you reveal your hate and disgust to them.
I wonder what they get for being two-faced and insincere? Is it that hard to just be happy on other people's accomplishments? Why is there a need to ruin a person's image just to please oneself?
But here's what we have to do if we cannot just ignore them:
Imagine the smallest value of coin with two faces, that's how good-for-nothing they are. Let's not waste our energy on them, instead, let's prove them wrong.
Feel bad that they have nothing better to do so they resort to this. No way they are better than you when they bring you down which means they are below than you.
They messed with the wrong person. They messed with YOU. Show them how amazing you are. The gossips will never define you.
Badmouthing stinks and the one who badmouth stinks far worse.
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Is there WI-FI?
I'm going to ask you a question:
***Can you live a day without your phone?***
Truth is, our smartphones are both ***blessing*** and a ***curse***.
We keep looking at our phones- even for no reason. Our attention is fixated on it like our life depended on it. We get anxious if we didn't bring it with us.
One time, when me and my younger cousins went to a secluded area: their first question was:Is there Wi-fi?
What did we expect? Of course there's no signal up there.
Seriously, you can feel how disappointed, frustrated and how much they wanted to get out of there quickly. It was silly to take for granted a peaceful place and enjoying a nice scenery in exchange of a stable internet but that is how most of us prefer.
Welcome to the Digital World where surviving without a phone is nearly impossible.
This is the generation where internet and technology control our life. Spending time with your friends and family means being with each other while holding a phone with you. Talking to someone most likely mean through social media rather than face to face.
Have you heard of 'Social Media Detox'?
Being out of reach. Giving our eyes a rest from staring at our screen too much. Deleting the apps on our phones.
Simply, unplugging from the digital environment to reconnect with the real world.
It is not called a challenge for no reason. It is hard and frustrating but just imagine its positive impact in our mental and physical health.
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Using the internet for communication, learning sensible things and doing work is fine but if we allow it to distract and feed us with negativity, gossip, materialism and sexual desires then, it is time for us to detox.
A wise person is hungry for knowledge, while a fool feeds on trash.
Proverbs 15:14
Fill your minds with the Wisdom that comes from the Lord. Our mind is very powerful so we must protect it by filtering with what is true, honorable, right and admirable.
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Define 'SUCCESS'
Do you believe in destiny?
They say we decide our own destiny. Our choices lead us to where we are now. Our situation is dependent on what actions we take, decisions we make and goals we want to achieve.
If we get what we want, then we will be happy. If we become someone we imagined in our head, we feel powerful.
But believe me, the **happiness** that comes from all of it is ****short-lived.****
I actually have ***2 versions of what 'successful'*** means for me.
The first version goes like this:
I am only successful once I become rich. Someone very powerful. Someone in charge and with authority. Someone influential. Someone whose decision matters for everyone. Someone whose presence is overwhelming. Someone who can make others change their perception over things. Someone who can provide happiness to other through material stuffs.
In short, someone who has **title**.
During my childhood, I saw how my parents worked their b*tts of just to bring food to our table and pay an overwhelming rent and living expenses. We're not really poor, just the bare minimum like any other families living in Makati. I enjoyed being a kid with no worries over financial stuffs whatsoever as long as I get to play, eat and sleep.
Being young for me was a free pass of the stress-free life until my I cannot afford it anymore when I reached my teenage years. *I wondered 'why are we still not rich when both my parents are working hard?'* Is it because we eat more than 3 times a day? or are we spending too much than what we have?
It was determination to be rich why I became a good student. I wanted to graduate fast, get a job and earn my keeps. My dream home, dream car, and dream career are slowly creeping in my head.
I WANT TO BE A FILTHY RICH B*TCH.
Senior High came and I was pissed that 2 more years are added til I end my learning season but it all made sense when through the 2 years of it, I discovered something that will change my life. *I met new people who are successful in life.*
***But they are not rich nor with title and a stable career. They were all students like me.*** Someone whose life is similar to mine but surprisingly, they made me realized one thing: Being successful should **not** be based on monetary riches.
Through them, I met the Source of every riches. ***I learned about God and His Grace.***
I invested my time to know Him deeply and suddenly, I feel like heaven just poured so many blessings that I didn't acknowledge before. Good health, a complete family, chance to study and many more.
Being successful means finding a reason to glorify God with my successes, my answered prayers and growing faith.
I am still flawed but that's the best thing about it: He overlooks our imperfections and guides us to be our best version.
Being successful is not being in control but letting Him in control. Being successful means recognizing His presence and authority over your life.
Being successful is accepting the fact that prosperity that comes from God is endless and overflowing.
Do you believe in destiny?
Because I am. ***I believe in destiny made by heaven.***
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COVID-19 Patients labelled by Numbers
We all know the situation right now. We are undergoing a worldwide pandemic that only God knows when and how it will end.
I will not discuss facts about the deadly virus but the **people** affected by it.
***30th of January 2020***, the first case of Covid-19 was recorded in the Philippines and she is a female-Chinese National. Obviously, she came from China that's why she got infected. ***She was Case number 1.***
Little did the DOH know, the first local transmission was the **5th case** without travel history. Adding her husband, the **6th case** reported but the 2nd local transmission.
That was when the chaos and alarming news start to take place. Classes are suspended. Quarantine becomes our resort.
As of today, total cases in our country went from more than 260,000 and still climbing up for more cases everyday.
The number of cases continue to rise every day. From transmission, to recovery to deaths..
Many people have died from this. It is sad to witness the death reports of the victims who are labelled by case numbers. *Without proper names and titles.*
**HOWEVER**
I know that it is part of the **protocol**. It is best for everyone to hide their identities.
Releasing their names could worsen the mourning of the families. It could cause panic from the people who know about them. The families could also experience discrimination.
Even with how they are labelled, they are and will forever be etched in their families' hearts and mind.
Although it is sad, it is still for everyone's sake.
Soon, the labelled numbers will not be for positive patients.
It will be the numbers who survived. Tested negative. Tried the curable vaccine that will end this dark time.
Let's be grateful from the miracle of being alive and healthy. Another day means another chance to be with our families, do what we enjoy doing and just being able to make new fond memories.
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the guy who cannot finish anything
*Once upon a time, I finished something a guy couldn't do himself.*
...
I like the smell of coffee so I decided to quit my job at an office and settled to become an employee at a coffee shop. I was so thrilled to do something I enjoy doing.
When my shift's over, I always sit near the big glass of window, perfect place to enjoy my own brewed coffee while reading Mitch Albom's works.
It was one quote from her book that stayed in my head:
"All endings are also beginnings. We just don't know it at the time." - **The Five People You Meet In Heaven** https://www.goodreads.com/work/quotes/2561472
I wondered what it means.
On a busy day of work, I saw this guy hold one of her books while ordering a cup of expresso. It was my first time meeting you. It was nice to see someone read the books I like.
You came again on the next day.
And then the next day...
the day after that...
It was not the reason you caught my attention. You see, every time I clean up the table you have left, the small cup of coffee you got has coffee leftover. I thought that you didn't like the way it tastes but it was always your order.
*Every single time, you never finished drinking all of it.*
You keep coming with your books. I keep looking at you wishing I have the guts to approach you. Must be nice to talk about books, fictional characters and coffee with a stranger.
I tried to gather courage to come up to you and start a conversation.
But one day, you stopped going to the coffee shop. I thought maybe you're just busy with work and waited for you the next days but there was no sign of you.
Life goes on for me. Just about when it was normal again without your presence months after that, you returned. You still read her works, huh? Maybe it is time for me to approach you.
You never know how glad I was to see you again. Finally, I felt motivated to drag my feet towards your table after my shift.
I don't normally do the first move but I did for you.
**"Hi...can I..uh..sit here?"** I made it sound hesitant. Please let me or else I will freakin' melt with embarrassment.
**"Feel free."** You looked up and pointed the sit in front.
Your voice sounds gentle, different from what I expected.
I did what I planned for months. I got my book and read quietly before I acted shocked to see you reading the same series like mine. I seriously have a chance to become an actress.
*BLAH*
*BLAH*
*BLAH*
I let myself talk while you patiently listen-hoping you're not seeing me as an annoying stranger.
**"What can you say about the ending?"** I tried to sound chill but I wanted to get into your head.
**"I didn't finish it..."**
Silence.
Is it rude to ask you why? Why would you not finish the story you've read from the very beginning? Why wouldn't you want to see what happens to the protagonists after everything that happened?
**"Really..."** So, will this mean I have to get lost and stop bothering you?
I contemplated and decided to change the topic.
**"But I enjoyed it. Doesn't matter if I didn't finish it."**
Wow. You made it sound like it's not a big deal. It made me want to know more of you. This is really first time feeling this. Being so curious to a real person.
**"Do you wanna..."**
I froze for a second. This is really unfamiliar to me. Why the heck am I feeling giddy and excited? Still, I maintained my face-chill and unbothered.
You stopped at the end though. **"Nevermind.."**
Wait, what?! Are you seriously going to let me ask again for more time with you?
**"Dinner?"** I smiled like it's normal for me to eat with a freakin' stranger.
I was really not fond of cakes but when you laid down two slices of cake, something inside my stomach keeps flapping. Am I just hungry or what?
We started talking about other things. Your way of letting your eyes rest from working in front of your laptop is reading. I think you just like reading in general. Nothing's wrong about that.
**"Can't believe I ate everything coz I don't usually eat cakes.."**
I almost stopped talking when you smiled at me like that. You have to stop that. Your grin that makes you look so innocent.
Only when I found out you already laid your fork without even finishing your cake. Just one more bite but it was there on the plate untouched. Poor cake.
So you can't eat everything on the plate too, huh? Or maybe you just had a meal and still feel full. I brushed the thought and enjoyed our time together.
The 24/7 Cafe feels warm at night. It really is enchanting to meet you. I kinda hoped that this night is longer but no. We have to go home on separate ways.
**"Uh...so thanks for tonight. Are your free- uh. I mean, Goodnight..."**
Jeez. Is this normal to think you're cute even with frustrating me with your shyness?
**"I'm free this Sunday. See you?"** Wow. I should have a trophy for being this pushy and desperate.
**"Okay. Nice meeting you, Shane."**
Oh God I almost shrieked! He knows my name? I didn't even ask his because I was trying not be too FC even when I failed so many times already.
**"Sorry I accidentally saw your name on the bookmark. I'm Marco."**
Hi, Marco. I think I like you... Can you like me back? Shocks. I'm crazy.
Now I'm sure I'm not normal. This is already me liking a guy I just talked to today.
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Work made me very busy but when Sunday came, I never wished time could be slower when we were watching a movie. It was silent but still nice.
**"Uh..I'm gonna head outside and let you finish the movie."** you whispered.
Wait...it's not yet finished? Oh, right...
**"Nah, let's go I already know what's gonna happen.."**
So we didn't get to know the ending of the movie he paid but I am still having fun. wtf? I'm so cheesy.
It was fun being with him. He was just the right mix of silent and talkative. He knows when to listen and when to say what's on his mind.
I hope he knows how he is making me so giddy like a teenager. No! I hope not.
-
Last year, this guy is just a stranger. Then, he became someone I love..
Now, we're still good friends.
I am happy. I need to look happy regarding our status coz I didn't wanna lose him.
*But I am done being his friend.*
I invited Marco to a book fair held yearly and decided that I will confess to him that day. He will know and I will get the answer.
It rained that day but good thing the place has a huge shade. I waited for him before going inside. He told me he's gonna come.
But he didn't.
He just never came that day. It hurts but I tried to understand. That's how I adore him.
But he didn't come the next day...
And the next day after that..
And the day after that.
He was suddenly gone. Like the time he suddenly stopped going in the cafe. I hoped it didn't hurt crazy like the first time but no, he broke me even when I am so sure he makes me feel whole.
I contacted him. I am so eager to see him as long as he says when and where. I went to his house but he was not there.
He vanished in my life like a spring breeze blowing in my curtain window.
Maybe he got so tired of being my friend? Maybe he decided to finish our friendship coz he can move on without me.
How dare he?
He will just leave me like this without an explanation?
He really is something special. He knows how to ruin someone. He ruined me.
*The guy who cannot finish anything just ended my happiness and hope for him.*
Without any warning, he left without finding how we end. He left without even beginning to equate my feelings. I can understand if he just tells me he doesn't like me back but once again, he left.
If this guy cannot finish what I started then I will do it myself. This love will die down.
***I will end my love for him coz it's the only way for me to live and laugh again.***
I will stop loving him now. For myself. Because I am so tired of this.
***Marco, you did it again. You decided to not see the end of what happens to us so I will make sure I will end it no matter what.***
In the finale, the guy who cannot finish anything chose to end us.
END.
Decided to write this last night. Yey! Should I make HIS POV?
This is purely fiction. ^^
Become Rich in One Simple Step
Do you ever feel so broke and very frustrated to see others become prosperous unlike you?
Do you just wish you were born in an old-rich family with countless money in the bank and properties all over the world?
Do you ever just wished that during the time Makati and Taguig cities were just bunch of ***talahiban***, you purchased the land area for a very small amount compared to how it costs right now?
We all have wishes and what ifs we can never undo because time doesn't go back even when we want to.
So this is a very simple step so we can all become rich!
Do you really wanna know?
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First thing you need to accomplish so you can become rich.
COUNT YOUR BLESSINGS.
***By counting your blessings, it means:***
Appreciate the good things in your life.
Don't focus on what you don't have.
Command the universe to pour prosperity in your life with your positive mentality.
Be ready to accept what the floodgates of Heaven will provide to you.
You have more than enough.
HILUU GUD MURNING 🖤💛❤️‼️
How to Glow Up
I've been struggling to find the definition of ***I.***
I have this internal battle with myself whether I am unique or just about everyone that occupies Earth. I know that being simple-minded and easy to please doesn't make me generic but I still feel not so sure about my purpose.
I am not an attention-seeker but I want my spotlight. Not to be praised but to just simple feel good about myself. I don't even dream of a big crowd to watch over me but the thrill of standing out the crowd gives me thrill.
Being young, we don't really have an awareness about the standard of society but growing up, our consciousness wakes us up from a dreamy world.
Welcome to the Reality.
Growing up means letting go of old habits, even the comfort zone we grew up with. Growing up means more responsibilities, headaches, pain and distractions. Those changes that everyone would encounter because life never stops for someone even if you beg for it.
Everyone will soon have to grow up. Be independent. Glow up from being childish to responsible adults.
First things first: Let go of your oblivious self.
To glow up, you need to let go of your fantasy world. Life doesn't revolve around you. Life won't give you everything you want unless you work for it. Be mindful of others. Happiness doesn't come from material things alone.
Get out of your comfort zone
Glow up doesn't really mean physical transformation. It can also be emotional, mental and spiritual. Burst your bubble. Let go of your safe place and start taking risks.
You'll never know what's best for you without trying out other things.
Self-reflection doesn't have a fee
Talk to your inner self. Don't wait for others to comfort you and do it yourself. Stop thinking too much about what others think and start putting focus on what you want. What do you want? Will it make you happy?
YOU FIRST.
Love yourself before anyone else. This is not selfishness. This is a matter of your own well-being. Stop comparing yourself to others. Forget about the timelines. Focus on your purpose and vision.
The best kind of glow up is the obvious one coming from inside out. This will take time but as long as you can see result, don't stop.
Everyone has their own battles, hardship and phasing.
Our main purpose is to **glorify God** and we will never be able to do that without being the **best version of ourselves**. You will definitely glow as long as God is taking control of your life.
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Flirtatious
I stared at him
The guy that calls me a *flirt*
`"Tss Di ka ba nabobother? I mean, he calls you names, ang sakit kaya nun"` my friend once told me
But hell! I just want to get his freaking attention! Yun lang naman ang gusto ko. Kahit sa hindi magandang paraan.
Nasasaktan ako. I'm not a hypocrite, I thought from the very beginning that my fetish for him was shallow. I just wanted to flirt him, until one day, the shallowness of what I feel towards him became strong. Too strong that I'm doing crazy things to him and to myself.
Nanood ako lagi ng basketball games at practice nila. I even tried to let the ball hit my face just to let him notice me! Pero dedma lang siya. Still, that didn't stop me.
Naging stalker niya ako. I wanted to know him. Everything that matters about him.
Nalaman kong isa siyang only son sa pamilya nila. With his two girl siblings, siya ang pinakamatanda.
But then I stopped stalking him after a month dahil sa tingin ko ay nagmumukha akong desperado...
Ugh! I envy their maids and his driver, specially the ball that he's currently holding! I sighed. Pinanuod ko siyang umupo sa isang bench. He looks exhausted...and hot.
Hindi ko naman talaga magugustuhan si Austin kung hindi lang ako nadapa ng bola niya nung grade 6 palang kami. Late na kasi ako pero nung nadapa ako, hindi na lang ako pumasok sa first class para mapunta niya ako sa clinic. It's kinda ironic though when I started liking him that day instead of hating him for what happened.
His scent kept me calm. He did a lot of things to say how sorry he was. Sobrang gentleman niya pero ngayon, hindi niya alam nasasaktan ako sa pasimpleng rejections niya.
We were once friend, I guess.
Pagkatapos niyang magpunas ng pawis at uminom ng gatorade, nakita ko na naman kung paano siya magpakita ng sign na bad mood siya. Ayaw niya sa mga babaeng hindi magkamayaw sa pagtili.
It's weird. *Tsk*. Fan girls. I'm one if them, right? Would he also hate me for screaming his name?
**He calls me** ***flirt*****..**
Dahil sa pagpapansin ko sa mga teammates niya.
Isa sa pinaka-kinaiinisan ko ay natawag niya akong flirt because of that! I don't want them! Why can't he see it? Napapansin nila akong palagian sa court so they tried talking to me. It was fun dahil mas nakikila ko siya through them...
Bakit ba siya nagagalit? I dont wanna know. I just want to think that he's possessive. He doesn't want me for someone else. What's his is his right? Ganun na nga siguro.
**And lastly, he calls me flirt.**
Kasi tingin niya *attention seeker* ako. Particularly for boys.
Jealous? That's a good sign. Kaya naman tinuloy tuloy ko na ang paglapit sa mga teammates niya. I want him to burst because of his jealousy and push him to make a move. Baka sakaling mag confess siya.
But I was dead wrong the whole time...
Galit siya sa akin.
Kasi mahilig ako tumitig, mahilig magpapansin at tumili kapag nakaka shoot siya...
Not that he's uptight to show that he likes me also... But because he's scared to even show the real him
Galit siya sa tuwing nakikita niyang malapit sa akin ang mga ka teammates niya. Galit siya sa tuwing napapansin ako ng ibang lalaki. Galit siya sa tuwing may timitili sa mga kagrupo niya.
**Because he's the real attention seeker**. He wants the attention of others. He wants to earn the attention of those who are flirting me.
Ang tanga ko! Hindi ko man lang napansin na iba talaga siya. Hindi ko man lang inalam kung bakit hindi niya man lang ako mapansin.
I was always around him the whole time.
Dahil ba kahit pagbalik-baliktarin ko man ang mundo, hindi ang atensyon ko ang hinahanap niya? Ibang atensyon ang mas gugustuhin niya. Hindi niya ako nakikita dahil sa iba siya nakatingin.
I'm just a girl on the bleacher falling for the wrong guy on the court.
Written last 2016.
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Cast all your anxieties on Him because He cares for you! 1 Peter 5:7
Interesado si Lord sa buhay mo kaya wag kang matakot na itaas kay Lord lahat ng pangamba mo. Let Him be in control and trust His Will 🙌
hindi na ako aasa pa ako II
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*"Anong ginagawa mo?"*
Pinigil ko ang hininga ko bago humarap sayo
*"Ano bang pake mo?"*
Hingal pa din sa aking pagtakbo
Nalate ako dahil sayo, sana alam mo!
Napuyat ako kakaisip kung anong nagbago
Saan nagsimula 'tong kahibangan ko?
Anong dahilan kung bakit ako natatameme sayo?
Isa ka lang naman dati sa mga kaklase ko
Gusto ko nang ibalik ang dating ako
Hindi naman sa pakialamera ako
Kasalanan ko bang pansin ko bawat galaw mo?
Masama bang itanong kung ano nasa isip mo?
Pakiramdam ko nabubuang na ako
Kulang na lang umamin ako sa iyo
Pipigilan ko 'to hangga't makakaya ko
Itataga ko sa bato na walang makakaalam nito
Tiwala lang magiging normal ulit ako
Saka ako nabalik sa wisyo, hawak ko na kamay mo
*"Anong ginagawa mo?"*
`Di pa tapos bHie`
Another day, another package! HAHAHAHAH salamat, shopee!
I suddenly wished that every drivers (jeep, tricycle, taxi etc.) could have their very own Spotify Premium and enjoy music while working hard... :< Maybe one day...
hindi na ako aasa pa ako I
Alam mo ba
Ayaw ko sayo
Hindi kita gusto
Ang pangit ng ugali mo
Hinding-hindi ako magkakagusto sayo
Buong-buo ako bago ka pa dumating
Masaya ako nung wala ka pa
Kaya kong kumain mag-isa
Kaya kong tumawa kasama sila
Sana hindi na kita nakilala
Alam mo ba
Hindi ko gusto ang epekto mo
Hindi naman ako ganito
Kinakabahan ako sa presensya mo
*Shet*, 'yung puso ko, ba't ganito?
Alam mo ba
Hindi ka naman gwapo
Naiinis ako sa mga mata mo
Hindi perpekto pero napapatitig ako
Naiirita ako sa tawa mong nakakaloko
Hindi ko na maintindihan ang sarili ko
Puro na lang ako sulyap sa banda mo
Parang nag slowmo ang paligid ko
Hindi ko nagugustuhan ang naiisip ko
Ayaw ko sayo pero parang iba na ito...
This is an on-going poem. I just want to explore and try this style :)
Customer is King
Customer is always R I G H T
I don't know why but there is something inside me that boils with anger whenever I see someone raising hell and ignoring someone's human rights JUST BECAUSE OF THIS *STUPID MANTRA.*
Customer is ~~always~~ R I G H T
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I have a lot of working-student friends who work as diligent fast food crews. I really admire them for their hard work and dedication to support their family and studies.
**Customer Satisfaction** determines how happy are the customers with the product, service and overall experience of the company's product/service. Still, this doesn't mean we are going to tolerate them with their stinky behavior.
The minimum wage is **P537** per day in the Philippines. Not that big of an amount to buy someone's respect. We have no right to discredit someone's dignity just because they are working to serve us.
Customers pay for the food/service they are getting. Workers are paid because of their labor.
No one goes home as a loser.
Not until, a customer with a messed up temper and blabbering mouth starts to discriminate, point fingers and act like a King without a crown, then, it is already an unfair trial.
An officer, worker or crew is not paid to ultimately please the customers. That is nonsense! They are equally paid for finishing their work and doing their responsibilities. It's unfair to disregard their feelings and throw their pride in order to satisfy the client.
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Sales is not everything. Being the one paying on the counter doesn't give us the right to mock, belittle and disrespect those behind the counters.
Show not just a little compassion but tons of it. We all work for someone. Remember that. A customer can be wrong. A crew can be wrong. We all make mistakes. We all have our '***bangag***' moments. We all fail and disappoint.
Just remember that we are all actors and actresses on the stage. Those who work on the backstage are also us...
Customers are not Kings. Let's not look down on people and be so full of ourselves.
How can I move on when I'm still inlove with you??????
#hindipoakobroken
What is Child Grooming?
*Trigger warning. This topic is sensitive and contains abuse and violence. I will not put pictures and audio.*
Due to some situations that I have been witnessing on Social Media, I decided to make an article about child grooming to let others know how this happens and what to do if this happens to our loved ones.
What is CHILD GROOMING?
Grooming a child may sound ~~innocent~~ and what mother usually does for their children but **THIS IS AN ACT OF SEXUAL VIOLENCE.**
This is far from being innocent. This is in fact, attacking an innocent child's mind in order to get the trust of the child and *allowing to make the abuse appear natural.*
Grooming is the process of luring, befriending and building trust and emotional relationship with a younger person (particularly innocent children) in order to
Manipulate
Exploit
Sexually Abuse (rape, molestation)
Human Trafficking (child pornography)
There are many unsaid cases happening all around the world regarding this issue but many have no idea that it is already happening in their very own household.
What are the Signs of Child Grooming?
According to SOS Magazine, child predators' key action to get a victim is through grooming. https://sossafetymagazine.com/abuse/georges-story-10-signs-someone-you-know-might-be-grooming-your-child/
Giving special attention to the child.
Buying gifts for the child for no reason.
Being isolated with the child in situations like babysitting, tutoring, coaching.
Offering an ear to listen to the child when they need to talk while being sympathetic and understanding.
Offering to buy alcohol or drugs for the child.
Spending time with the child while they are showering, or undressed.
Sexual jokes and talking about sex.
Touching the child in the parent’s presence to make the victim believe the abuse is okay. This can be as simple as a hug.
The victim doesn’t want to be hugged or touched by the abuser.
The predator shares common interests with the child that you know they don’t have any interest in.
Be aware of your children/siblings whereabouts at all times. Ask about their opinion personally about who they spend most of their times with. Stay alert if they act strange around other people. JUST BE THERE FOR THEM. Have deep conversations. Don't be afraid to ask because we'll never know unless we ask. Listen to your child, this is the most important.
CHILD GROOMING is a **VIOLATION** against the LAW. It should be reported! Don't hesitate to ****report predators**** that you know and let the **JUSTICE** prevail.
*I really wanted to write an article about this as soon as I read an issue about someone in Showbiz to let everyone know about this crime. Hope this helps.*
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the art of seduction
So this is a *****jonaxx***** thing you would understand if you're a solid ****JSL****. If not, then let me tell you what this art is all about.
I never knew how fictional characters could make an impact on my life until I read the works of jonaxx in wattpad. 2012 was the year I started reading 'No Perfect Prince' and since then, I am a fan.
I made this article coz I miss Troy Ezekiel Salazar. Hotel owner. Astroboy.
But this fictional madness brought this Art of Seduction that I'm gonna share right now...
What is the Art of Seduction?
Simply means *'Paano mang akit?' 'How to get someone's attention and make them to like you..'*
Let's keep it real: Some people prefer having short term relationships a.k.a *fling*. Why? Many reasons but for Troy, he is not in for commitments and romantic relationships. Many can relate to him of course.
So, the first point is: Do not purposely do this just to become a heart breaker. Troy is a fictional character but **we're not** so keep that in mind. **Don't do this to be heartless and hurt someone!**
1st Rule
*Kapag may nag aya sayo, hindi ka dapat agad bibigay...*
*Example: If someone asked to dance with you, don't give in so fast and say yes.*
Mahal ang atensyon mo. Marami pang humahabol sayo kaya hindi mo agad sila pagbibigyan. You will make them feel that they're not the only one pursuing you. You will make them feel that you have so many options.
I don't think it is bad to turn down someone as long as you do it with respect and as for this art, you need to do it to give an impression that **you're not easy to get** and they have to do more than that to get your attention.
**2nd Rule**
*Wag mo iparamdam na siya lang ang gusto mo...*
*The best way to like someone is to not like them too much.*
Dahil nga naisip na nila na may una nang nag aya sayo, mas magiging determinado na sila na kuhain yung atensyon mo.
A competition makes the battle more interesting, right? So this rule is to let everyone know how they need to be better than the others.
I think this means **be confident**. You are worth it and never let other people think the opposite. Just try to settle for less and learn your significance.
3rd Rule
*Wag mo ipaikot 'yung mundo mo sa kaniya...*
*Make him feel that he's not the only one.*
This is the really important. Be busy with your own life. Try to **live a life without him all the time**. Hindi ka dapat laging available lalo na kung may mas importante ka pang gagawin.
Troy gave an example that if you receive his text, make sure to reply after 5-10 minutes. Wait! Hindi porket ganiyan sinabi ni Master Troy, gagayahin na natin. Make sure hindi muna emergency bago tayo magpabebe. Remember, this is not to hurt someone but to seduce someone.
**4th Rule**
*Wag kang kabahan kapag kasama mo siya...*
*Be confident around him.*
The power of confidence! Deadmahin mo kung kinakailangan. Wag kang kakabahan dahil lang baka hindi ka niya magustuhan. Lalo na baka isipin nila na gustong gusto mo sila kaya ka kabado. Be natural.
**They will love you more if you're confident** in your body and the way you present yourself. For me, this is really an attention magnet kaya dapat natin idevelop sa sarili natin.
**5th Rule**
*Bolahin mo tapos laitin mo din pag may time...*
*Try to say something weird but make it sound like a compliment.*
Dito tayo makakajackpot! Don't hesitate to say weird things to someone. Being witty is cool.
Example: Try to compliment someone's scent and relate it to your family member. or even their hairstyles and whatnots. (Troy's example) Take time to give compliments. For sure, maalala ka nila bigla kapag ganon.
6th Rule
*Wag kang matakot mag decide para sa inyong dalawa...*
*Don't be too submissive.*
Keep in mind that your decisions would affect both sides. Kahit sa maliliit na bagay, **speak up your mind**. Wag kang puro 'oo', 'kahit saan', 'ikaw bahala' Make a decision for yourself.
We all have the freedom to share our thoughts as long as we are respectful.
**7th Rule**
*Tumahimik na lang kung hindi alam ang sasabihin*
*Don't talk unless you're sure.*
Sabi nga less talk, less mistake. **If you're nervous, don't verbalize it.** You don't have to make someone feel like their presence is too much for you.
Kung kinakabahan ka sa presensya niya, as long as hindi dahil masama yung instensyon, act tough and confident pa din. Fake it until you make it nga 'di ba.
8th Rule
*Wag maging pisikal sa hindi mo pa mahal...*
*Don't kiss on your first date.*
You don't deserve that kiss and run. Wag kang papadala sa physical desires mo lalo na sa bago mo lang nakilala. It's not wrong to kiss a stranger but remember your worth. Especially if you want to seduce someone, keep the spark burning.
It's better to **know someone better before being attached.** Mahal 'yang labi mo kaya wag mo ipapatikim kahit kanino. >//<
9th Rule
*Magpakatotoo ka...*
*Be yourself.*
This is the highlight of the Art of Seduction. Just be yourself and don't pretend to be someone just to feel better for yourself. Hindi mo man alam pero mas magaan sa pakiramdam na may nagmamahal sayo ng totoo at hindi dahil nagpapanggap ka.
He will fall for you for who you are - Troy Ezekiel Salazar (Training to Love)
10th Rule
*Semper Fidelis.*
*Be faithful.*
If you found The One for you, be loyal. Devote your love to him/her. Forget the art of seduction and be committed to your relationship.
*I hope you learned a thing or two about the Art of Seduction. Remember to be you and not hurt someone just because you feel like it.*
If you want to read more about this, find Training to Love by jonaxx in Wattpad or download your very own Jonaxx Stories App ^^ https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.jonaxx.stories&hl=en
Comment down, JSLs and let's support each other!
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