the art of seduction

So this is a jonaxx thing you would understand if you're a solid JSL. If not, then let me tell you what this art is all about.

I never knew how fictional characters could make an impact on my life until I read the works of jonaxx in wattpad. 2012 was the year I started reading 'No Perfect Prince' and since then, I am a fan.

I made this article coz I miss Troy Ezekiel Salazar. Hotel owner. Astroboy.
But this fictional madness brought this Art of Seduction that I'm gonna share right now...

What is the Art of Seduction?

Simply means 'Paano mang akit?' 'How to get someone's attention and make them to like you..'

Let's keep it real: Some people prefer having short term relationships a.k.a fling. Why? Many reasons but for Troy, he is not in for commitments and romantic relationships. Many can relate to him of course.

So, the first point is: Do not purposely do this just to become a heart breaker. Troy is a fictional character but we're not so keep that in mind. Don't do this to be heartless and hurt someone!

1st Rule

Kapag may nag aya sayo, hindi ka dapat agad bibigay...

Example: If someone asked to dance with you, don't give in so fast and say yes.

Mahal ang atensyon mo. Marami pang humahabol sayo kaya hindi mo agad sila pagbibigyan. You will make them feel that they're not the only one pursuing you. You will make them feel that you have so many options.

I don't think it is bad to turn down someone as long as you do it with respect and as for this art, you need to do it to give an impression that you're not easy to get and they have to do more than that to get your attention.

2nd Rule

Wag mo iparamdam na siya lang ang gusto mo...

The best way to like someone is to not like them too much.

Dahil nga naisip na nila na may una nang nag aya sayo, mas magiging determinado na sila na kuhain yung atensyon mo.

A competition makes the battle more interesting, right? So this rule is to let everyone know how they need to be better than the others.

I think this means be confident. You are worth it and never let other people think the opposite. Just try to settle for less and learn your significance.

3rd Rule

Wag mo ipaikot 'yung mundo mo sa kaniya...

Make him feel that he's not the only one.

This is the really important. Be busy with your own life. Try to live a life without him all the time. Hindi ka dapat laging available lalo na kung may mas importante ka pang gagawin.

Troy gave an example that if you receive his text, make sure to reply after 5-10 minutes. Wait! Hindi porket ganiyan sinabi ni Master Troy, gagayahin na natin. Make sure hindi muna emergency bago tayo magpabebe. Remember, this is not to hurt someone but to seduce someone.

4th Rule

Wag kang kabahan kapag kasama mo siya...

Be confident around him.

The power of confidence! Deadmahin mo kung kinakailangan. Wag kang kakabahan dahil lang baka hindi ka niya magustuhan. Lalo na baka isipin nila na gustong gusto mo sila kaya ka kabado. Be natural.

They will love you more if you're confident in your body and the way you present yourself. For me, this is really an attention magnet kaya dapat natin idevelop sa sarili natin.

5th Rule

Bolahin mo tapos laitin mo din pag may time...

Try to say something weird but make it sound like a compliment.

Dito tayo makakajackpot! Don't hesitate to say weird things to someone. Being witty is cool.

Example: Try to compliment someone's scent and relate it to your family member. or even their hairstyles and whatnots. (Troy's example) Take time to give compliments. For sure, maalala ka nila bigla kapag ganon.

6th Rule

Wag kang matakot mag decide para sa inyong dalawa...

Don't be too submissive.

Keep in mind that your decisions would affect both sides. Kahit sa maliliit na bagay, speak up your mind. Wag kang puro 'oo', 'kahit saan', 'ikaw bahala' Make a decision for yourself.

We all have the freedom to share our thoughts as long as we are respectful.

7th Rule

Tumahimik na lang kung hindi alam ang sasabihin

Don't talk unless you're sure.

Sabi nga less talk, less mistake. If you're nervous, don't verbalize it. You don't have to make someone feel like their presence is too much for you.

Kung kinakabahan ka sa presensya niya, as long as hindi dahil masama yung instensyon, act tough and confident pa din. Fake it until you make it nga 'di ba.

8th Rule

Wag maging pisikal sa hindi mo pa mahal...

Don't kiss on your first date.

You don't deserve that kiss and run. Wag kang papadala sa physical desires mo lalo na sa bago mo lang nakilala. It's not wrong to kiss a stranger but remember your worth. Especially if you want to seduce someone, keep the spark burning.

It's better to know someone better before being attached. Mahal 'yang labi mo kaya wag mo ipapatikim kahit kanino. >//<

9th Rule

Magpakatotoo ka...

Be yourself.

This is the highlight of the Art of Seduction. Just be yourself and don't pretend to be someone just to feel better for yourself. Hindi mo man alam pero mas magaan sa pakiramdam na may nagmamahal sayo ng totoo at hindi dahil nagpapanggap ka.

He will fall for you for who you are - Troy Ezekiel Salazar (Training to Love)

10th Rule

Semper Fidelis.

Be faithful.

If you found The One for you, be loyal. Devote your love to him/her. Forget the art of seduction and be committed to your relationship.

I hope you learned a thing or two about the Art of Seduction. Remember to be you and not hurt someone just because you feel like it.

If you want to read more about this, find Training to Love by jonaxx in Wattpad or download your very own Jonaxx Stories App ^^

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