Whatever you do if someone hurts you

Assalamualaikum warahmatullah. I hope all are doing good.

It is said that good people are the ones who suffer the most in this world and good people accept the situation after getting hurt and start abusing people. So today's article is about what to do or what to do after getting hurt by someone.

So whatever you do if someone hurts you-

• Be transparent to yourself....!! 'If someone is bad, you do bad too, what will you do in life if you are so good', you must have heard a lot of such advice. You have to be bad because someone did something bad to you, there is a saying in our country that you have to pick up thorns with thorns which is a very misleading and untrue proverb. Life isn't like that at all.In fact, the point is - be honest with yourself, do whatever you want with your conscience in front of you. Don't do anything that makes you feel small, don't do anything bad for someone close to you. Don't do anything for someone against your will. Then you will see that the troubles and sufferings of life have completely decreased.

• Learned to verify....!! Yeah you may not lie to anyone but it shouldn't be forgotten that the people of the world lie, use others for their own benefit and cheat others because the number of cheaters is much higher. Trusting people is a very good quality but you must verify it before trusting anyone. Why did Allah give you a conscience??You have been endowed with this special quality to test yourself and no other animal has been given a conscience. The only animal in the world is human beings who can understand their own good and bad because they have a conscience. So check, use your conscience. Then maybe you can understand yourself a little bit.

• Don't give up your honesty for anyone...!! You're a good person but don't do anything by being persuaded by someone's words. Do what your mind wants or what suits your personality. Don't give up if you feel bad for someone or have pity for someone or someone close to you is lonely. Remember, Allah does what He does for good. If someone doesn't understand your value, doesn't evaluate you, destroys your friendship and If he or she can be happy then why do you suffer for him/her ??Keep in mind that what Allah does is for good. Maybe Allah has chosen someone better for you. Whether he is a friend, whether he is a life partner, whether he is a business partner, whatever he is, have faith in Allah's plan.Then don't leave yourself alone for any human being.

• Make weakness a tool.....!! You are a kind, truthful, passionate and is this your weakness ?? Does everyone hurt you by capitalizing on this weakness ?? Turn this weakness into truth, deal with lies with truth. Allah Almighty says in the Holy Qur'an, "Resist evil with the truth."Never think of yourself as small. Remember that in today's world finding soft-heated people is a huge thing and this is your biggest tool.

• Learn to ignore...!! Don't understand when the relationship with whom should be broken ?? If someone does wrong to you, then forgive the thought of small things. People are just wrong! The more you forgive, the more generous your mind will be, the more you will be able to live in peace, your soul will have peace. Acknowledging the situation can often lead to mistakes. If you continue to hate the person who made the mistake, you deprive yourself of the other nine good qualities after one mistake of him or her. But by forgiving one of his mistakes, you could enjoy the benefits of nine good qualities. So don't sever the relationship. Forgive. If you are repeatedly hurt by the same person, you'll forgive him if he ask for forgiveness is OK but if you think the guy is kind of bad, he's constantly doing you wrong one by one then get rid of him. If you continue to be hurt even after asking for forgiveness, don't think completely, move away from him silently without hurting him, forgive him in your heart and pray for guidance for him but don't hurt him in your heart.