Madly InLove - His Choice

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4 years ago

It's hard when a member of Famil choose a different path and values another family more than his own family, his parents.

It's been a few weeks since my brother behaves like a different person in front of my mother. He keeps on lying on the things that he doesn't need too. He is madly in love with his girlfriend as if he doesn't want to.be part from her.

We aren't against his choice but he needs to be a responsible man before he married her girlfriend. They are just still young at the age of 21 and 18 they at this verge of lust as if they really know how it feels to be a married person.

This stup** brother of mine his brain is damage. Well, I am angry toward him because he often lying to our parents especially to my mother. He doesn't value her and he treats her like nothing.

Like last night he came home but he didn't show up to our mother and immediately return to the family of his girlfriend. He values the family of his girlfriend than his own parents. He may think that he will live happily with them but the truth he didn't know the word family and what struggles they may face.

He's a lier and irresponsible kid. He treasures the woman for now but he ignores his family. We talk to him but he never listened. He may think that everything will.be okay to tye both of them but he doesn't know what's ahead in this life.

I don't know what to do to him. We came to that point that we need them to be married that's the only way we see. In my religion. A Man should Marry the Woman first and we value that religion that he needs to follow no matter what. After their marriage, he is his own.

This brother of mind bothers me. well, hearing how he hurt our mother. How he lies to our parents, how irresponsible he is, young and stubborn is no good for his future. I understand his choice but I hate his way.

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4 years ago

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He's so in love. That's why he can do that. Being in love sometimes gives us the tendency to ignore other people around us. We're just focusing on one person that we think we can't live without. But he is too young. Maybe he will change soon. But he is no longer a teenager. Let him marry if he wants to. It's his choice. He will reap what he sows.

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4 years ago

Agree he will reap what he sows. He his happy now but always. Having a family is such a huge responsibility. Especially in the side of the man.

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4 years ago

Yeah. The way he treats your mom now can be the future of his girlfriend. I hope it won't happen.

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4 years ago

Their still young to be married and even having that uncontrolled emotions maybe you should give him guidance even if he was doing unappropriate things,and he realized things on the future how he disrespect your mother and how hard life is.

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4 years ago

We guide him , we talk to him dear. Today he came home and made his own choices to be with that gurl family and we let him. He will realize and regrets this in the future. I wasn't happy in his decision leaving my mother crying like that.

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4 years ago

yeah you should do that, to have realization about things hes doing now and to be sorry for what hes done like hurting your mothers feeling

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4 years ago

Don't be mad at your brother. Don't hate him. He is young, not yet aware of his life and life in general. Love can make life more beautiful, but it is not nice to lie to your mother and father. Let him, let him choose his own path. Don't defend anything to him. When he first feels hurt by her family, he will return home. There is no nicer place than his house.

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4 years ago

Thank you for that. I love how you say those words it's comforting and your right he may came home someday with regrets of the choice he made today.

I am mad now but it won't last for sure I'll forget these. He is still my brother were related by soul and blood because we came from one womb.

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4 years ago

I'm with you. ❤

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4 years ago

Aw! he's brainwashed by his Girlfriend, just saying. Hope he realized all that horrible things

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That's what my mother said. He came home today and decide to pack his clothes and return to that gurl family. My mother left crying with so much pain and sadness. I won't forgive that kid unless my mother do.

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4 years ago

One day he gonna realize all he did. Just comfort your Mother for now

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4 years ago

Hope so he will be more matured & he will be more responsible towards life too. Its so sad to see disrespecting own mother. He can have his choice & we shall respect the choice of his own but he needs to be more matured & professional towards the life

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4 years ago

Your right seeing my mother in tears because of him makes me mad and I start to hate him. We aren't gainst them and he is the one making a reason for us to be mad at him. His been like these since this Pandemic start in our country. When quarantine start.

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